Achcha..ami bujhtesi na...chele ra eto easy ekta jinish keno bujhe na?...ekhane bola hoynai je shara jibon-er moto job chere diye Maa shara din bachcha'er take-care korbe...abar'o boli...When the baby comes in the world...she/he needs a full-time care until she/he is 4/5 yrs old!...and ei koyta year ekta meye/maa job na korle amon ki khoti hoy?? The mother can re-join in her work-place when her kid is 4-5 yrs old! ... ei jinish ta bujhte chesta koro boys....ekta bachcha r upor tar maa'er provab onek beshi...bachcha ra maa ke dekhei shikhe!!
Ajke Priyo "SenSeTransp()rt" asked me, "what if the girl's husband is disable to work or dead...tokhon maa kivabe bachcha r khoroch chalabe?...ofcourse the baby needs the care but the mother shouldn't leave her job..she needs money to raise the kid..."
I answered him saying "if money matters...and jodi shei meye'r jamai na thake or he's disable to work than the girl shouldn't give a birth to the baby because they've money crisis and ei oboshtai ekta baby na neya tai better"
I explained enough! Good Luck to the wives!