I didn't mention the word "commitment" in the first post although I have mentioned the word "relationship" on my 2nd post while trying define the word "deal breaker", just as you know...a general definition. But the term is not limited to relationships, anyone can be a deal breaker with their ways. But I think both of us (you and me) had the opposite sexes in mind when we came up with the respective threads, so in that way, they're similar.
Btw, I completely agree with you about people being emotionally foolish
