Here is something I want to debate with u guys. It’s indeed a very wonderful topic to discuss about and thanks author to give us scope to talk about it.
For Past 10 mins I have reviewed almost all Ur sayings and here is my view about this topic. I believe “Sex before marriage a must”. I know hearing this u guys instantly having a very negative and forceful idea about me and my personal life, but guys, remember it’s only a thread and one’s view of society.
If a couple think about a marriage they not only think about their relation , activities and family - they also think about a very big issue called “spending life together”. It’s a very big step in life and young couple just take the step without even second thought. Talking about sex – it’s a biological need of a human body. It’s a same thing like eating food, going to rest room and drinking water. You can not ignore the fact that if u r hungry and the food is crap you aren’t satisfied. If you guys don’t know how Ur partner boy/girl going to meet your biological need after marriage, how u going to make sure that it’s a happy life for u? And that is the reason why a marriage ends up with controversial topic called “can’t satisfy me”. Not 1, not 2, not 3 I have heard this more than ten of times from married couples. My question was to them “dint u know that before u get married?” their reply was pretty much same for all. “ Hay Allah , ey chele bole ki ? biyer agey….. wastak ferullah” – well here u go , why complaining now then ?
Two of my spoil brat friends are having affairs ( POROKIA) with 2 happily married women. Guess what, one of them was an arrange marriage and other one went out for 3 years before they get married.
Guys admit the fact – it’s a love , affection and care u show your partner. It’s the most valuable gift u can give to your love. Moreover it’s a another way of saying to your beloved one “I trust you , and I know you are not going to hurt me”  |