Arrange Marriage vs Love Marriage

[Gemini]

well one reason they get to do that is because we let them. Eta manusher nature. Ekjon ke (male female whatever) prothome mathay uthay felle pore niche namano onek koshtokor. I've seen it as well as experienced it. So the first trick is not to give shit and not to take shit from anyone. Kill 'em off at the first major offence. Eta manusher nature to see how far they can go without getting caught in the act. The more you let them go, the more they'll try to, and actually will go off the hook

[Force_Recon]

I guess arranged means forced to some people ,eh?
well be assured I won't be marrying anyone who is being forced to marry.

I don't care much as long as I get to know the person very well before anything and have a
mutual understanding and know where we stand in terms of our personal beliefs and life's plans

that sums up my plans too.

[dolphin19]

i think at 1st lovin n den if possible arrangin a marriage through d family should be preferred.

[Severus]

click on the jeevansathi adz ;-)

[Force_Recon]

oh there is of course a religious factor.The spouse of mine has to be a Muslim,a believer.

[saba]

religious factor ta amer kase kom important..................

[Zero-Cool]

Originally Posted by saba

chelera impress korer jonno onek valo thake.....but biye kore felar por ar ato valo thake naa...tai boli ki manus chena onek kothin kaz........

Saba I don't agree with you in this matter that u have stated above ......... Amar point of view te meyera onek change hoi......... And Meyeder change hoite 2 second er beshi lage na..... I can bet on that from my personal life experience...... Manush ke chena kothin kaj na, Meyeder china kothin kaj...... Cause Meyera nijera je ki chai shaitai tara jane na....... neways back to topic....

Amar point of view te arrange marriage ta beshi bhalo hoi....... cause amar dekha mote arrange marrage e beshi tike and love marriage khub kom e thik e....
Shaita aro bhalo hoi jaita love and arrange marrage..... Means Affair howar por familywize bhabe biye howa....... aitar upor kisu nai........

[chanchal]

Originally Posted by saba

chelera impress korer jonno onek valo thake.....but biye kore felar por ar ato valo thake naa...tai boli ki manus chena onek kothin kaz........

sabar kase amar ekta ques ase r seta holo shob dosh ki shudhu seleder?meyera kisu kore na?tara kokhono chng hoy na?ami onek meye kei dekhsi j bier age bole sobar sathe eksathe thakbe but bier por alada thakte chay........ek haat e tali baje? na baje na....so seleder sathe meyedero dosh thake......tai noy ki?

[saba]

meyera chane hoy.....but cheleder cheye onek kom....

tobe ami oo mone kori affair then family arrange marriage ee best.....

[Zero-Cool]

Originally Posted by saba

meyera chane hoy.....but cheleder cheye onek kom....

tobe ami oo mone kori affair then family arrange marriage ee best.....

Hmm... Atleast u do agree with my thinkin......... But Saba ami tomar kothar sathe ak mot na ..... Meyera shob chaite beshi change hoi............ Cause meyera stable na kono kisutai in their life.............. Akhon aita bolbe and 5 minit por arekta bolbe and 2 second er mathai they make their decisions.......... see stable na....... u know what I mean.............. And aita ami most of the meyer moddhe dekhsi............