Changing Urself For Someone U Love? Do U Think That's Ok?

[kenshin]

Well as the title suggests, would you change yourself for someone you love? I mean, is it OK to make yourself into a different person for someone you love? Or would that defy the whole point of it?

Say if you were really lazy, but you are in love with this girl who doesn't like lazy men, should you change?

I'd like some ideas

(Honestly I kinda think this might be in the debate section, but im not completely sure)

[jolronge rangiye]

Good topic. This can be in the discussion sections.

"If you love me, you will not change me and then love, rather you will love me and then try to change me in the good way."

Do that make sense?

If its like he wont be loving you if you dont change, I am sorry to say at least I cant consider it as love. But yeah, if its that he loves me the way I am and will be happier if I change , i would love to be the way he wants me to. Because he will still be loving me if I dont change. Thats what I believe love should be.

[DyingSoul]

changes for mutual understanding iz OK..bt its not alws needed to change a person..

NB: thread moved to Lover's Lane

[oYn]

I will ask myself - is the change good or bad, if good then I will try else no way......

[Force_Recon]

a little bit but I won't try to change my lifestyle or outlook on life.

[AngeL_EyeZ]

He'll love me for who I am...why will I change myself for love ?? I mean if i've any bad side , than yes I will change that...but do I have to change myself 100% ?? dun know...

[alana]

to get my luv i can change my out look maybe bt not my mentality..my thoughts.hmm...to me my luv is more precious so i can change ..i'll give him the top priority ..i'll respect his likings,dislikings nd if it increases his luv for me thn wut is the problem?

[disher]

ja bolla...topr priority huh? familr chaye beshi? jani na amio answer, janle pls kew bolen

[Icche_Ghuri]

I m gonna change but not fully... In fact, if any change does not feel right to me.. . I m gonna change her thoughts abt that change... . yeah kinda sure abt it...

[dIsTiNG]

Prem korar cheye relation dhore rakha onek tough. Relation dhore rakhte gele 2 jonke continously compromise kore jetei hoe. Jodi akta relation e akjon beshi dominate kore, oi relation er kopal valo na ei jooge.

So, compromise korte hoeto kichu change kortei hoe nijer.