Changing Urself For Someone U Love? Do U Think That's Ok?

[Icche_Ghuri]

I agree with disting bro...

[Donotalo]

Originally Posted by jolronge rangiye

Good topic. This can be in the discussion sections.

"If you love me, you will not change me and then love, rather you will love me and then try to change me in the good way."

Do that make sense?

If its like he wont be loving you if you dont change, I am sorry to say at least I cant consider it as love. But yeah, if its that he loves me the way I am and will be happier if I change , i would love to be the way he wants me to. Because he will still be loving me if I dont change. Thats what I believe love should be.

ei bapare amar thought already jolronge rangiye apu bole dise so ami r notun kore nai ba bollam. shudhu ektai change - he er jaygay she hobe.

[Lamia]

Now, as people have said earlier, he loves me for obviously who im.. Therefore, he wouldn't want me to change.. But one isn't perfect so everyone has bad sides which can lead to horrible complications sometimes..
So, if it's that kinda change.. I mean changing my bad habbits which is causing a lot xtra pain, then sure i will be delighted to change..

[bengaltiger]

Originally Posted by Lamia

Now, as people have said earlier, he loves me for obviously who im.. Therefore, he wouldn't want me to change.. But one isn't perfect so everyone has bad sides which can lead to horrible complications sometimes..
So, if it's that kinda change.. I mean changing my bad habbits which is causing a lot xtra pain, then sure i will be delighted to change..

i agree....any1 who loves u wud like u 2 get better....2 get better u often change things abt urself.....this change for the good of u...or atleast for the good of both of u....but when change is ONLY for the good of ur partner...then ur partner is prolly just being selfish....u shud not allow that change

[Pothik]

like dyingsoul said..

if there is a mutual understanding..there there can be some change...unless not

[Pritam]

If t'is a true love, then definitely i would change.... Coz 2b in a true relationship only means sacrificing n giving for both of them!!! So it has 2 b done!!! Otherwiz u wld lose d relationship............

[kenshin]

ekhane ekta shomoshsha ase. maximum relationship ei partner ra eke opor ke compromising nia blame kore. ekjon bole "ami beshi compromise korsi, nijeke beshi change korsi" arek jon abar bole je she ahole beshi compromise korse, beshi change hoise. shei case e apnera ki bolben..

[abhie]

depnds. U'll alwayz want to do somthin tht makes Ur spouse happy.. and same way around.. U wudnt Lik2 hurt ur spouse. In terms of changin, I think both hav to compromize few things to get along with each other well.
SO, in tht case if I feel somthin thts not really bringin nethin fruitful for me , Im just doin tht thing for simple pleasure or frm habit , why wont I atleast give a try2 give it up!?.. for the sake of som1's happiness.

U shud be able to do nethin for Ur Love at any time.. shudnt U!?

[Machranga]

Never.

[Galib]

if it makes you good ... definately yes!