Clash between ur Lover & ur Best Friend

abhie · #1 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 02:27 AM

If the girl u Love and ur very good friend (girl) dont gel well wid one another ....and tht Friend wants ur time.. but u cant Leave the girl U Love ... what would u do.. ?

Gemini · #2 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 07:28 AM

You asked the questions to men only but we women go through this dilemma just as much (if not more) so I chose to answer too

That's a toughie but I would never EVER be with somoene who didn't like, couldn't get along, didn't respect or would be jealous of my family and friends. These are the people and the relationships I will NEVER compromise no matter how GOOD the man otherwise is

Striking a balance between relationships is also key, so everyone involved should understand their roles and limits regarding certain things

shmegel · #3 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 07:34 AM

i agree with wat gem apu said, but i also think it goes both ways. My friends should learn to compromise with him as well...best possible solution if both sides are totally incompatible is to spend time with each seperately!

.HellzPori. · #4 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 07:35 AM

there has to be an understanding between two people in order to have any kind of relationship. if that girl or my love don't understand my position, then well, amar ar ki korar?
i don't think i would like to be around people like that.

Gemini · #5 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 07:36 AM

I edited my previous post. I accidentally hit "Post" before I had a chance to include what Shmegel stated above

abhie · #6 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 11:01 AM

Thanx for answering Girls...

But should I blame the girl I Love (who's also happened to b my frnd) for avoiding the girl (who's my good frnd..Only!) who's constantly been negative whenevr I am with My Love infrnt of her ?
She's a very calm and quite person... who doesnt mix wid every1.. Moreover My frnd is allmost totally opposite in attitude.. She's lot faster... and somtimes noisy as well..
but nevertheles inside.. she's as soft as she can be. (I know tht)

what I wanted was Just all of us together.. in a group. And talkin ab my Love.. we hvant approached each other yet... may be somday.... It will come to Us. Im in such mentallity tht I cant Leave My frnds for My Love.. I don Like tht..sorry!

So.. all I want is a mutual between these 2 Girls..

If U wanna share ur thoughts as well regarding this matter.... Plz do.

habijabi · #7 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 11:25 AM

is there any possibility that the good friend of yours more than likes you?

abhie · #8 (**permalink**) 01-10-2008, 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by habijabi

is there any possibility that the good friend of yours more than likes you?

hote paare..
But or to Boyfriend ase... and she alwayz says.. she Likes him more than nethin else... even if Tht Guy leaves her.. she wont ever forget him..

habijabi · #9 (**permalink**) 01-17-2008, 10:45 AM

you will be surprized to see how much some people can change over time

Gemini · #10 (**permalink**) 01-17-2008, 10:46 AM

My crush is friends with my best male friend

So no chinta there? I sure hope so