Love someone but getting married to someone else!!

[tok_jhal_mishti]

Its some thing i need to know from u guiz...............

Ur in love with some one................may be cant get her.......may be she or he dont love u...............
Is it the end of ur love.................!!!

i don think so.......u will be still in love....

will u get married to some one else or is it really necessary that u get married then!!! will it be justice to that person ur gettin married!!!

[Gemini]

Well bhalobashle je biye kortei hobe emon kono kotha nai. Onek shomoye nana karone shobar shob plans perfectly hoye uthe nah. But then again, if two people are in a constructive relationship and not just living in fantasy, then sure its wise to get married to each other.

I dont know...I see love and marriage as two different things. Love is an overwhelming feeling of emotions, marriage is a social status, a much more solid thing/bond or whatever you may. Marriage is marriage and love is love. Yes its important to have love in a marriage but not necessarily marriage in love. Ekhon if you start loving someone and start thinking about marriage right off the bat, it's kinda killing the relationship head-on. Lots of love marriage unfortunately demise mainly because most people didn't think things through, they just jumped into it thinking everything will work out like they do in fairytales or something.

"is it really necessary that u get married then!!!!" >>> this begs the question - did one love the person so that they could get married to them or loved the person because...they loved the person?

What will be justice is if people are honest and truthful to each other about why or why they can not be married, in my opinion.

another thing...just because the othe person doesn't feel the same for you it doesn't mean you have to stop loving them. Sure its wise to not have any expectations from them since they're not going to reciprocate your feelings but hey! You love them or not is your business (but first, please make sure they're worth of it!).

[alana]

its not necessary to marry that very person u love but if ur married to another gal/boy be sure u'll be honest..love is nothing bt a habit...

[.madman.from.hell.]

well i blv that if u honestly love some one, u should get married to that person. now as the question of one sided love comes, in this case its not that you should get married with him or her. but when you love some one and and the other person loves u back, i think they should be married. remember loving some one meanz getting committed to that person, and once your committed u shouldnt break it as it expresses our moral values of seein and judging thingz.i don't love PORI by habit. i love her because i am IN LOVE with her just like she is with me .

[aurora]

hmm..eita amaro ekta boro dilemma mone hoy.
when u love someone and marry someone else..is it sort of a betrayal of ethics??that gets me confused.
well..maybe its not..if u r clear with urself.
but its important to be clear with ur spouse too.ur married to someone..but ur still longing for someone else..that isnt right at all...

[tok_jhal_mishti]

i donno how u ppl see it............but marriage is kind very important and most promising thing that happens to our life............

i don think it is wise that u shud think of som one else and get married to som one just becas its time to get married..................

onek kisui onek kisu theke hoy............but takin chance or risk on marriage is worth anythin.............

[tok_jhal_mishti]

Ajk abar atate post korte ichcha korlo ..................

marriage is a life long commitment.................the person I wud marry im suppose to love her.............but when i love som one else its just marriage...its kinda jail...................and if i TRY to lead life with that marriage it wud be all fake.....................a life long commitment for life long cheeting....

can do that................somone is not in lov marriage is ok without love there is a huge possibility to get loved.................but i love someone in heart and get married to somone else its kinda cheetin me and the person im commitin

not fare..............it shudnt be this way........there shudnt be anyway

[alana]

love ki bujhi na..
akhonkar diner manush e love niye ato excited age j amader parents ra tar age amader grand parents ra biye korlo love na korei ..tarao to sukhe chilo ..abar akhon love marriage eo sukh thake na...love korar pore love ta abr "break up" hoye jay but break up er age oita love e thake thn get over kore ..thn abar arekjon k love kore!!!now ami asolei bujhtesina wut the hell is love!!!

[tok_jhal_mishti]

Valobasha ..........na na its not the good house its love...........ageo chilo akhono hoyto ache.......
k jane amader abbi ammu der mone j kau chilo na!!! thakteo to pare........hoyto kokhono kau eshe ghure gaslo akbar.............nishchoi akhono tader mone pore

Love is not a stupid or little thing..........when ur in love u really will live then

In love no one dies............there is no looser in this case.............everyone is gainer who really fall in love..................ask anyone who is really in love.....will always say one word..........I will live with it

Love is such a pain ja oshojjo kor..............but ai batha manush shara jibon carry kore moner anonde cas they r in love..........

Beshi dramatic dialogue die felsi .........sorry!!

[alana]

^^ ami kichui bujhlam na re bhai...