Marriage: Sillika Laddu

BaNNa · #1 (**permalink**) 09-10-2006, 02:14 PM

ekta kotha procholito ase..
dillika laddu...
je khai she postai...abar je na khai, sheo postai...
marriage er bepartaw same...
so wat do u think abt marraige?
is it necessary?
biye korlei ki shukhi howa jai?
naki eka thekei shukh?

lets start discussion....

SenSeTransp()rt · #2 (**permalink**) 09-10-2006, 02:31 PM

Shukhi manush hoite chaile emnitei shukhi howa jay, biye na koreo, biye koreo. . .

depends on person. . .Well as human beings live in society in some rules and regulations which we are carried out since our birth. . .marriage is a part of it. . .

its necessary for one's biological demand, fulfillment. But it can go the other way too, there are many unmarried but happy out there. . .

jhora`pata · #3 (**permalink**) 09-10-2006, 09:22 PM

... marriage is necessury for creating a family ...

... tobe life e ekjon valo partner jemon life ke onek peaceful kore .. at the same time partner wrong hole life hell kore dite pare ..
... tai right person choose korar shathe shukh er relation thakle pare..
... shukh er cheye shanti beshi imp .. so ei jonno dorkar good understanding..

.HellzPori. · #4 (**permalink**) 09-11-2006, 07:46 AM

-->>> i don c nethin wrong wid marriage..ashole ajkal manush er mentality e amon hoye gese je biye korle life jahannum hoy..but i reali don think itz tru..it dependz frm person to person..
for me..i think marriage iz cool..i c my mom nd dad all da time..dey did love marriage 23 yrz ago..nd tader amar life e serious jhogra korte 2-3 timez deksi..nd ths it..dey r happi..so tht meanz je marriage can b perfect if u want it to b..

AngeL_EyeZ · #5 (**permalink**) 09-11-2006, 08:24 AM

**sorry if I say anythin wrong here**

biye amon ekta jinish...je biye kore shey o postai...je kore na shey o postai !

well...marriage is a committment...its a promise b/w husband 'n wife! The person who dont understand the importance of marriage...he/she shudn't get married!

I think selfish ppl shudn't get married..caz selfish ppl ra shudhu nijeder shukh/dhukkho niyei busy thake...arekjon er jonno care kore na..'n they dont kno how to share!

and yes! biye korle life hell hoyna...as long as there's a good understanding b/w husband 'n wife...marriage life is all good...ajkal manush er dhorjo onek kome geche...ektu sacrifice korte pare na..ektu shojjo korte pare na...kichu r theke kichu hoye gelei...shondeho shuru...than faltu jhogra 'n than DIVORCE! Couple ra nije rai nijeder marriage life hell banay...tarpor dosh hoy biye kharap!...Ajob!

"marriage can be perfect if u want it to be" -- iccah thakle upay hoy...nijer marriage life kivabe shukher hobe eta nijeder ei thik korte hobe...Trust/Understandin' and Compromisin' r the best thing to make a marriage life Perfect! ...rite Pushpa ?

.HellzPori. · #6 (**permalink**) 09-12-2006, 12:42 AM

-->>> agreed wid AngeL_EyeZ..hehehe
wel u c..i learnt a lot too..biye iz a relationship..b/w 2 ppl..a sweet relationship..almost as equivalent as havin a gf/bf..jus tht biye tey responsibilitiez aro beshi..but thn..bf/gf hole jototuku trust nd honesty lage..same for biye..so i think tht in da past 3-4 weekz..whtever i've been thru..(onli sum ppl kno..)..i learnt a lot frm it..trust chara..kono relation e ak hoye thakte pare na..itz merely impossible..
biye korlei feshe jai..ths not tru..jus take biye as a normal relationship..nothin more nd nothin else..nd learn to compromise nd understand each oder..nd ths it!

BaNNa · #7 (**permalink**) 09-23-2006, 02:32 AM

biya bodhoi kortei hobe

ladduta agee khai then dekha jabe ki reaction

barbaq · #8 (**permalink**) 09-23-2006, 04:14 AM

biye to ekhono korini kaajei e'niye jaa bolte paari taar praai purotaai "porer mukhe jhaal khaaoaa". taarpor-o boli...

well... aami aamaar chaarpaashe jototuku dekhechhi, aamaar kokhono mone hoini sukhi houaar bapyaartaa sref biye koraa baa naa koraar opor nirbhor kore. i've seen a lot of couple who're living together for 20/30 years, n' even more. n' it seems they're happy. at least satisfied with what they've got. the best example i can present- my parents. they're living together for some 40 yrs. sometimes they even quarrel (with very silly matters) with each other!... but i have never seen that they stopped speaking (not even for some 10/20 mins) or they're spending the night in different rooms. so, theres definitely something in it.

i donno whats gonna happen with me. but i do beleive that marriage is very much necessary. my previous posters have already showed some reasons... some good reasons. i agree with them. n' i would like to add one more point here.

in our ongoing socio-economic condition people start bocoming alone after 45 yr of age (it could differ from person to person). n' when it starts to happen people start to feel how important a life partner is. n' u can get such a partner only n' only by marriage.

i won't say that each n' every couple are a happy one, but if u don' have a partner, a companion- i can't say u'll be happy or not, but i can say confidently that someday u'll feel all alone in this universe.