signs that ur significant other is two timing you

[Severus]

1. The person never invites you to dinner in his or her neighborhood. At first this might seem generous, but after a few dates this morphs into dubious behavior. Basically, this person doesn’t want to be seen when out with you.

2. Your date prefers to stay at your apartment—giving you lame excuses for why you can’t come over to his or her place. Maybe if you did, you’d figure out the real deal—fast!

3. Your new honey pushes you to sleep together very, very quickly. (This might be because his or her paramour is conveniently out of town, and this person doesn’t want to waste the free night’s opportunity.)

4. Some of the compliments bestowed on you sound clichéd and memorized, like... “You are just a little bit irresistible.” Or this person pulls you close, and says, “Why are you standing so far away from me?” If your date walks and talks like a player, he or she could indeed be a player!

5. Your sweetie goes on a lot of business trips—even on weekends. Leading a double life, anyone?

6. When away on business, this new love of yours doesn’t provide details about what activities are occurring—and doesn’t share the name and phone number of a hotel, either. Um, maybe because your special someone isn’t away on business?

7. You start to notice that your new honey prefers to email you rather than call you. (This could be because his or her partner is in the other room.)

8. Often when this person calls you, the calls are (a) kept short, (b) end abruptly, and/or (c) conducted in a barely audible voice. All signs that someone else may be in the picture.

9. When you first meet this love interest, you’re only given a work number—and getting a cell-phone number is very slow-going... (probably out of fear that you’ll call when he or she is out with the significant other).

10. Your new love is rarely available on weekends or national holidays — claiming business needs — or that family crisis.

11. Your sweetie is always at work late… hmm.

12. This person is very vague with details about past relationships. (This could be because an “ex-paramour” is actually a now-paramour.)

13. Your new honey repeats the same stories—because he or she has forgotten who’s been told what.

14. When spending time with you, this person has frequent excuses to go for little walks with cell phone in hand. For example, your sweetie may claim to make a business call and that there’s bad cell phone reception where you are sitting. Or your new love seems to go to the restroom far too frequently—and for far too long. This is a sign that the individual is working on covering for the fact that he or she is out with you!

15. When with you, he or she doesn’t want to pick up certain calls in your presence. Gee, wonder why not?

16. This person is constantly online, even when with you, checking emails. And if you come close when he or she is online, poof! The window on the computer is immediately closed so you can’t see what was going on.

17. Your date never ever leaves his or her cell phone or BlackBerry out where you might see it. It provides too many clues!

18. Your date’s co-workers or friends seem a bit uncomfortable in your company.

19. You find out this person has friends who are players. (Often a group of immoral friends can work as a support system for each other’s immoral activities.)

20. You find out that your honey bunny cheated in past relationships. Statistically speaking, cheaters are suspect for cheating again.

[Russell]

I tried two timing once and loved it (ah, does that make me a bad person now?). I could talk to one girlfriend when the other was busy, and when I had a quarrel with one I could freshen up my mind talking to the other... the only problem was when both of them called me on the same time... I had to make up excuses like I need to sleep or I've an exam and so on.

Both of them are far away now, and I hope they are happy with their life.

P.S. I'm clean now. I got dry washed with Surf Excel.

[tanna]

Originally Posted by Russell

(ah, does that make me a bad person now?)

Yeah it does!

[oYn]

ekta - duita sign er por e directly jiggesh kora bhalo..............

[tanna]

and then what?

You do not suppose that they will open up and speak the truth, do you?

[oYn]

Originally Posted by tanna

and then what?

You do not suppose that they will open up and speak the truth, do you?

Which is better - ignore it and pass the message that you are a fool or ask directly so they know they should come up with a legitimate reason.

[tanna]

A legitimate reason in that case would be some pathetic excuse (and not much else) if the person truly was cheating on you. Yes, if you're absolutely certain that the other person's cheating on you, you have to let her go no matter the pain.

[alana]

ai rokom shoitan significant (!) other k sahte sahte leave kora uchit.

[.HellzPori.]

if a guy is cheating on u, he would always be nervous. he would not pick up ur calls most of the time nd if u tell him to call u at a certain time, he would never call claiming that he was busy or he was out with his friends ...
nd meyera ... usually bf der ke onek avoid kore.
nd basically, it is quite obvious when someone cheats.
but thing is, a relationship needs trust in order to work out properly.
nd ei je signs gula dise, i don't really agree with all, but then again i would say to follow ur intuition. it works a lott. if something is unusual, don't ask ur partner directly, but rather try to confirm the situation on ur own first . then if u find anything, ask ur partner. if he/she shows any signs of nervousness or if they don't want to tell u, obviously something is wrong .

p.s. all those speaking from experience by the way .
one last statement: cheaters nd players can go die in hell !

[Gemini]

Originally Posted by tanna

and then what?

You do not suppose that they will open up and speak the truth, do you?

Trust your gut feeling. Ekbar, duibar, tinbar jiggesh korba. 4 barer bar thik moto jhhere na kashle walk out of the relationship. You don't need to be with a liar and worse, you don't want to be with someone whom you can't trust anymore. Speaking from my own experience, I did that and later found out that Yeap He was being unfaithful right around the time I suspected