Bangali Parents

[DyingSoul]

i think we should move this thraed to debate zone..keu keu dekhi boltece tara amader valo chan..abar oneke boltece je ei gula hudai..

valo debate hobe mone hocche..

[AngeL_EyeZ]

lol...amar gaye-e eshob kotha lage na...I dun give a damn to them...but Severus toh lokkhi chele...tar ettu kosto hoy mone hochche...


DyingSoul...u can move it to debate section..if u WANT!

[Severus]

i want to show this thread to angel eye's mom

[AngeL_EyeZ]

Originally Posted by Severus

i want to show this thread to angel eye's mom

hahahahahaha...u Wish! ...'nd she know her daughter better than anyone...so no NEED ...thanx anyway...

[Tepantor]

hahahahha hahahhah hahahhahah

Well amader ma baba amader bhaloi chan....
Amar ekhon mone hoi amar amma amar upor besho shashon r shoshoner bebohar koren......
Kintu amar sis ra amake bole je ekhon ei shob oshojjho lagleo..........pore dekhba je ammar eishob shashon e kaje lagchhe..........

[junkviper]

eito mone hoy shey dinkar kotha! Tokhon 11 e kebol uthsi. shorir e ektu notun hawa batash (colorful!) lagse. shoto holeo college student. vaab i alada. Shobai kemon ektu honor er chokh e dekhe. unknown keu shohoj e ar keu tumi bole na. kintu amar ammajan er kono change nai. Haire durvaga jononi! tOmar shontan je jothesto boro hoyeche ta tumi i kebol bujhle na. ekhon o mone porey, sharadin boi khata nie boshe thakleo tumi shob shomoy haw kaw korte-"Sharadin e ektuo porish na!". Tokhon khub i kharap lagto.
Kintu aj bujhi , tomar oi "chilla palla " kotota helpful n urgent chilo. ajke jodio ami tomar theke onek dure thaki, tarpor o tomar shei shashon jeno amar shathe shathei ache . ammu tumi jeno tomar moto i thako. ajibon amake shashon koro.

[jigSAW]

It's hard to realize anything if you are not in your parent's or them in your shoe. When I was young, it was hard for me to carry out every single piece of order from my parents. Reason? Just didn't feel like listening. While I was attempting for SSC, had a 'late night coming home fight (verbal)' with my parents. While arguing, my Khalumoni (who happened to be at our house at that time) entered into that room and made an arrangement that they (my parents) won't bother me anymore regarding my study and I have to prove that my result will be such that, this will remain as a pride for them. (simple bangla: ja khushi koro, but result bhalo chai). I agreed. Just after that day, they never asked me or take anything as major concern. I enjoyed FREEDOM for a while, and then started studying and usual life. And after a while I realized that I have started doing exactly what my parents was yelling and forcing me to do. Surprisingly without their single concern. My result was better than average. But the incident made me much more responsible towards life ahead.
Problem is, neither parents nor children are ready listen to each other. Parents being over concerned failing to communicate with children. Thus, a so called Generation Gap occurs.
I, myself, trying to focus on my child's behavior. He's still too young for any sort of prohibition or restriction. But, I consul journals and online references beside my parents while tendering my sibling.
Fact is, patience does pay off. If both parents and children are listening to each other. And of course, end result matters.

[junkviper]

To me : Bangalee (or Bangladeshi ) parents r much more concerned about their children. THey do care about their present n a better future. yah doin so sometimes they may get excited or may do some overhead works. i think it shud b accepted. i cant think of those societies where parents dnt know where his daughter/son is, what h/she is doing. i feel pity for them. even in Bangladesh i hav seen so many bad examples of such incidents. parents shud also bear in mind that while exercisin their control power they shudnt taste the patience of the child.they shud b considerate. n hopefully most of the Bangalee parents r considerate enough!

[jhora`pata]

... HSC level porjonto amar upor khub kora shashon chilo ... tobe lekha-porai 1st hotei hobe .. eta bole nai kono din ... kintu basic ta jeno valo hoi tar jonno onek kora-kori chilo ... behaviour er bapare khub kothin nojor chilo amar maa er ...
... amar each n every movement tar nokho dorpone chilo ..
... tokhon life ta chilo like hell ...
... ek matro meye hishebe kono allad chilo naa .. borong joto gunaboli orjon kora jai tar bapare ekta pressure chilo ....

... tobe ami jokhon uni te pori .. tokhon bujhte perechi amar ja kichu hoyeche tar onektai amar maa er jonno ... karon tokhon ami r o 10 jon theke nijeke alada korte partam ... oboshhoi positive way te...
... r ekhon ami jani amar maa chara ami eto dur ashtei partam naa ...
... n i really respect my parents for their carefulness...

... parents ja kichui boluk/koruk tar main goal ta holo amader valo kora..
... r ami eta from my soul belive kori je tader ke koshto diye kono kaj kora hole tar result kono din valo hoi na ...

[Donotalo]

amar ma-baba amake kokhono khub kora shashone rakhe nai. chhotobelay khub beshi dushtu thakay amar ammur hate onek mar khaisi. ek rokom atongke thaktam maje moddhe, jokhon ammur mood kharap thakto. oi shomoy ta amar ammu onek ragi chhilo. ekhon shei rag koi ure chole gechhe ke jane!! ammur shathe ekhon amar shomporko friend der motoi. class 6 theke amake eka barir baire jete deya hoy. tobe firte kono karone ektu deri korle kora jhari shunte hoto ammur kachhe. karon ammu khubi tension korto amake niye. ekhon oboshsho tension otota kore na. amar abbu kokhon amake khub ekta mareo nai, bokeo nai kono din.

pora lekhay valo chhilam na kokhonoi. average class student chhilam. basha theke pressure deya hoynai kokhono valo korar jonno, eta amar shouvaggo. karon amar ja porte valo lage na, ta niye porte boshte ichchha korto na. SSC-r age ami kono din 3/4 hours er beshi pori nai. ami amar parents niye gorbito je tara amake jotheshto freedom dise.