Career or Family ??

[abhie]

This has been bugging me.... ever since my teacher asked one of my female friends if she would put career before a family life... when the time comes.

As such, I ask this question to to our female members particularly. Of course, males will and should give their views too.

Women get pregnant, and are normally entrusted with looking after children.
Tht causes serious impediments to their careers.. As such, Many career driven women dont even want a family ...which I find ridiculous as it changes the very elementary human concept of a family life. ..nd because of its implications on our lives.. life in general.



discuss.

[habijabi]

gotta have some balance between the two man ! u should not choose one outta above . there are many who maintain both . female der kothai bollam. gotta make some sacrifice but you can still maintain both. you may not be able to devote 100% but 70/80% aint that bad

[dark_saint]

1. Career
2. Family


well, I Think , A Guardian Always Wants Tht His/ Her Children Will Take Care Of Them When Their Children Will Lead Themselves In A Successful Carrier..........but, This Is Left Behind For Lack Of Time For The Children...but A Prayer Always Works For Their Children...............

point Of View Nd In My Opinion, I Will Build Carrier First Then , I Will Devote It To My Family

[AngeL_EyeZ]

Ami Career ke thorai care kori ...family always comes first...but then jibon chalanor jonno career er dorkar...

AGREE with habijabi bhaia...so ar kichu bollam na!

[Donotalo]

me too, agree with habijabi bhai. ekta balance dorkar 2 tar moddhe.

[Gemini]

Both. Sometimes one has to take the backseat for another, but both are equally important and both need to be balanced. Family'r shobar eta bujha ebong respect kora uchit. Family amar kache onek important, specially the special bond between everyone. Sheita tikay rakhar jonno shoibaike equally contribute korte hoy....

[Numb_with_Rage]

career chara family o pata dey nah. lolzzzzzzz
if i grow up to be a hobo amarey shob failure dakhbey ar family tau khuchabey. lolz
mean korey bolbey nah... but jidh uthley mukh diye ber hoye jabbey
r amar abar giltey prob hobey...
dekha jabbey ki korey felsi. lolzzzzz

career comes first... then family. kidding

they go hand in hand... i wanna have a life.. have ppl who love me around me always. aito koshto students ra korey ken? career tau r shudhu nijer identityr jono nah, familyr jono o kora hoy... better living to be able to provide for ure family.

icha moto daan khoyrat koren, help koren manush k. but ontor jolbey until ure parent/sibling/any other close one doesnt show love.

familyr khushir jonno onek kisu kora hoy that is if u love ure family, having a decent career is one of em.

family first

[aurora]

it's not fair that life forces us to make choice sometimes.
both are important.one cant be happy without a stable family life,and in todays world you need to have a career to gain a footing for yourself..it's a balancing act.
it hurts me so much when i see that talented women are forced to sacrifice the jobs they have,the careers they worked hard for..sometimes against their will.a man never goes through that choice..it bothers me ...

[Ria]

agree with habijabi...

[PenciLeAkaPori]

first i m gona start my career..then get serious about my family then after my kids are able to take care of themselves i will get back to my career but if before that my hubby is really nice and wants to help me out with the kids then i might get back to work a littler earlier...but no matter what family life my first priority. and thats what my mother has been telling me since i decided to become a doctor. lol she wanted me to just get a degree and take care of the family instead of becoming a doctor. i respect her for that!!! :-) okie i m done now!