Cutting / Bruising / Hurting yourself when Depressed

[.HellzPori.]

been there, done that. NOT helpful.

it doesn't ease the pain, it makes it even worse. mental theke sharirik o pain hoye jai.

but .. i have to admit one thing. i did it cuz it helped me cool off my anger.
(by the way, i stopped doing all this stuff 2 years ago.)

however, recently a week ago, an incident happened when i punched the floor really hard nd almost busted my knuckles. i couldn't help it cuz it was more or less involuntary like ami control korte parinai cuz i was so angry with certain people. i didn't do it for the intention of hurting myself. i did it to make my anger level drop. later, i regretted cuz my knuckles hurt ... still now.

anyway, i hope amon r amar sathe jeno na hoi. i suffered a lot cuz of this part of my life. it didn't help me get out of depression. when i stopped, only then it did.
so .. i would recommend everyone to not take this path. it's quite a rough ride .

nd moreover, those scars on ur body keep reminding u of the past nd make u regret. trust me. nd it doesn't look great either.

DON'T DO IT AT ANY SITUATION IN UR LIFE. LEARN TO DEAL WITH EVERYTHING LOGICALLY. that's what i try to do now. nd i feel i'm soo much better off .

[Gemini]

I think the best way to know/talk about/judge something and/or someone is by going through it and knowin the people FIRST HAND. Emnite onek kichu bola jae/bhaba jae...but to actually know something/someone First hand is quite different. Then you know FOR SURE how everything works. Looks like you and I both know this by now Am so glad that you have realized and stopped

[Havoc]

I think.....only wannbez do dat..........era jiboneo vein katbe na......haater onno shob part katbe..........morar jonno ghumer oshudh khabe bt original poizon khabe na.......and deyl obviously cut a part jeita manush k dekhano jai......so dis is definitly work of a wannabe........and u need a sick mentality 2 do dat....so its a work of a sick wannabe.....

[Numb_with_Rage]

ppl just need some true listeners around. moreover gud friends
tailey shob thik hoye jai
i always say... dunt be nosy, but if u feel sumthing is not right it is ure responsibility to find out wat happened and help them get thru it.
rejecting, ignoring, or despising ppl is the worst thing u can do.
apni janen nah, apner kun kothai, kokhon, kakey aggath dibbey.

depressed ppl can do anything... cuz they have no hopes, no will to live.
ey feeling ta k positive kemney banai tey hoy akhono manush shikkhey nai.
result: getting high, creating physical pain to forget mental stress
but little do they kno that ey shob aru worse korey.
they dunt help... they dunt make sense either

i feel manush eyta dekhey dekhey shiksey. kew kew asey khamakha korey, kew kew cuz psychologically chinta korey it helps, kew kew cuz aito raag koi dhalbey? nijer upor dhalley. kew kew korey just to see how it feels

weird way to cope if u ask me.
raag uthley dor diye ashben... matha out hoyley gaan shunben...kichu akhben, likhben... kadben if u need to. gotta let it out. has to go somewhere but not like this.
ey energy manush jodi convert korey thanda jidh ey dey. onek kaj hoyto... onek unnoti hoyto.

u dunt like sumthing? move on... u feel upset? keep ureself busy
dunt wanna see anymore bad stuff happening? go help others.

i understand its hard... i lost my head for a year. karo shatey kotha boltam nah
kichu share kortam nah... just eka thaktey pochondo kortam. one day i had enough. i said to myself... joto frustration asey ami ono jagai use korbo.
relationship borbad korey ki labh
family friends der worry korey ki labh?

we r born alone... die alone.. ey shob kotha ami r mani nah.
yes its true onek jinish eka kortey hoy but there is always sumone who cares. oder jono, oder khushir jonno onek kichu kortey hoy.
being positive is one of the duties of being a gud human being.

shobai jodi nijerey kattey, bah suicide korey each time a prob arises, we wud all die! dunt u agree? lolzzzzzzzz

prob er r shesh nai pitla ghugues.
doesnt mean u will punish urself!

oi frustration control korey ono jagai kajey lagaitey hobey. dorod chara aito brilliant kobita r gaan shrishti hoyto nah. manush k inspire o korto nah to be ambitious and focused abt life.

so try not to be hasty. think it thru, and overcalm it. .

tc

[habijabi]

me depressed? may be sometimes but me unmad ?

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by Havoc

I think.....only wannbez do dat..........era jiboneo vein katbe na......haater onno shob part katbe..........morar jonno ghumer oshudh khabe bt original poizon khabe na.......and deyl obviously cut a part jeita manush k dekhano jai......so dis is definitly work of a wannabe........and u need a sick mentality 2 do dat....so its a work of a sick wannabe.....

i don't think i was ever a wannabe by the way. wannabe = to try nd be somebody else. but ami to onno karor moto hoite chy nai. i was still me.
i totally disagree with ur point of view. i never hurt myself for people to see it. ami amar body er amon parts o hurt korsi that people can't see. i hid this for a long period of time. but then i came out more in the open. one time i tried cutting my vein but i kept thinking ... katle amar life end hoye jabe. then i would never get what i have again. i would never be able to change the wrong things again. only that one little hope in my heart stopped me from giving up my life. it was the fear of me not being able to get it all back again. if my life ended, then that was IT. no more ... so, yes, i disagree with u entirely. sorry.

[Numb_with_Rage]

on a lighter note...

amar ek dosto joke korto:

"u kno, i wanted to cut myself, but then i thought i wud die a virgin."

lolzzzzzzzzz hahaha

[aurora]

its not that i have never been through trauma,and u cant measure pain..what can be a simple problem in one person's view point,maybe a catastrophe in another's life..
i have cried,and screamed,and put my loved ones through alot..but thankfully never tried to cut myself or hurt myself.once i thought of taking sleeping pills,but then i thought,what if i dont die,then all it would do is tag me forever,and if i do die..what good is it?a lifetime of pain for my parents..?people talking about me as someone who was a coward??no..that isnt a solution.

i have seen people i know cutting themselves when they were depressed..and they said it was to cover one pain with the other..but never heard that hurting one's self that way,made anyone happy..

[smiley_fanatic]

I prefer listening to music or composing poems.

[Gemini]

Originally Posted by Havoc

I think.....only wannbez do dat..........era jiboneo vein katbe na......haater onno shob part katbe..........morar jonno ghumer oshudh khabe bt original poizon khabe na.......and deyl obviously cut a part jeita manush k dekhano jai......so dis is definitly work of a wannabe........and u need a sick mentality 2 do dat....so its a work of a sick wannabe.....

So is this means you'd cut ur veins and drink true poison to prove you're not a wannabe? Because how would we know that you're not?

And yo..take your ignorance somewhere else. A person don't really know all the facts about someone/something unless they themselves have been through it. So think twice about judging someone and the situations they have been in. People who are constantly jumping into all sorts of conclusions about things without knowing are the ones with true mental disorders.