k Beshi bujhhe..!? U or ur Parents?

[abhie]

this thread might sound weird to U.... still khule fellam kichu na vebe e.
Just to c How u ppL respoonse...


amader oneker e dharona hoe.. Jibon er kono kono khetre.... That amra onek kichu e amadre baba Maar cheye bhalo bujhii.... r tara amader bujhen na. Ba bujhte cheshta koren na.

Generation Gap er jonno hok.. r je karon e hok.... amra onek shujog shubidha e Jibon er proithom theke peye ashchi.. jegula amadre Parents pan ni. So.. ei bapargula niye onflict hoe praae...

Now I wanna kno...
wht do u think. ?..

Do U think.. U kno better than ur parents?... sine when Ur havion this feeling? .. I mean at wht age?.. /which grade..?

y.. do U think tht??...

opinion please.

[habijabi]

[sorry for the little mishap in deleting the other thread.......kinda new in this stuff....hope you understand ]

In my opinion......."I understand my Parents... But they dont"

[Numb_with_Rage]

parents duh?

[oYn]

Depends on the situations. kisu kisu jinish parents kisu kisu jinish ami, so kontae vote korbo bujhtesi nah

[Elektra]

Both actually....
seeing things from a very neutral point of view u'll see that parents r more experienced than us...they usually know what da outcome of something mite be...

on da other hand, our thoughts match the changing times...we see things differently...so at times our parents understand more than we do, n at times we understand more than them, because age is not da only factor here...everyone has something from which others can learn...be it parents or be it children...

to sum it up-- parents think in thier own way n we have our own pattern to think... no one'z wrong here...each person is rite from his/her point of view. like someone said : there r many shades of grey between black n white...

[k13]

no matter wht... I alwayz depend on my Parents b4 takin any decision

[DarKsaInt]

I dont understand my parents Nd they also dont understand me

[Gemini]

It's a very blurry thing. Beshi bujha, kom bujha ashole depend kore on gaining various experiences as well as age. Ofcourse my parents understandings are greater in lots of areas because they have seen more of life than I have. But same goes for me too. Because we have different upbringing and I have seen lots of things as well, despite being younger than them.

Our generations have more knowledge than previous generations because it's the age of technology..of gathering and sharing and as well as creating information and just being more exposed to the world, which the previous generations didn't have the chance to. At least not as much.

For example: My parents didnt have the chance to travel various cities in North America alone when they were my age or even older. I had that opportunity. So I do know a bit more in that department. My mother never worked or had to worry about paying her bills and college and stuff. My dad didnt have a computer when he was in school. I do. My parents were not in Canada and were not exposed to different cultures and people with different mentalities and lifestyles than their own. I have. So I know more about different cultures and its peoples and their lifestyles than they do. And I've seen life and its ups and downsides the way they have NEVER seen. So emon na je ami jiboner kichui jani na, shudhu unara janen We both know a lot...just often in different deparments

And before taking any huge decisions, I consult my parents. Eventhough we dont seem to agree on things from time to time, I let them know/ask anyways. That gives them a sense of having still a bit of a control over me. I am, after all, their child. As long as living with them ar ki. Parents love having that control, quite frankly. I dont always enjoy it...but I let them know stuffs

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by Gemini

It's a very blurry thing. Beshi bujha, kom bujha ashole depend kore on gaining various experiences as well as age. Ofcourse my parents understandings are greater in lots of areas because they have seen more of life than I have. But same goes for me too. Because we have different upbringing and I have seen lots of things as well, despite being younger than them.

Our generations have more knowledge than previous generations because it's the age of technology..of gathering and sharing and as well as creating information and just being more exposed to the world, which the previous generations didn't have the chance to. At least not as much.

For example: My parents didnt have the chance to travel various cities in North America alone when they were my age or even older. I had that opportunity. So I do know a bit more in that department. My mother never worked or had to worry about paying her bills and college and stuff. My dad didnt have a computer when he was in school. I do. My parents were not in Canada and were not exposed to different cultures and people with different mentalities and lifestyles than their own. I have. So I know more about different cultures and its peoples and their lifestyles than they do. And I've seen life and its ups and downsides the way they have NEVER seen. So emon na je ami jiboner kichui jani na, shudhu unara janen We both know a lot...just often in different deparments

And before taking any huge decisions, I consult my parents. Eventhough we dont seem to agree on things from time to time, I let them know/ask anyways. That gives them a sense of having still a bit of a control over me. I am, after all, their child. As long as living with them ar ki. Parents love having that control, quite frankly. I dont always enjoy it...but I let them know stuffs

~ i COMPLETELY agree with ur answer .. u nd i share almost the relationship with our parents .. .. .. cool!

p.s. abhie -- u should have put up another option ..
"my parents nd i both understand each other in our own ways" ..

[Bristir Chhonde]

Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

~ i COMPLETELY agree with ur answer .. u nd i share almost the relationship with our parents .. .. .. cool!

p.s. abhie -- u should have put up another option ..
"my parents nd i both understand each other in our own ways" ..

Thanks for adding the last one...that's me...

"my parents nd i both understand each other in our own ways"

Gemini Api I agree with your response...

kono decision neyar age unader na janiye korina...jehetu amar upor bissas ache so janen je konta better hobe ami bhalo bujhi. r jodi goldogol mone hoi unader amake ektu sotorko korbe, korbei to eita unader prappo. ebon ami bujlam na bar bar controlling kotha ashe keno, parents should be friends not controling there child.

amra ekdin ma, baba hobo...tokhon amader eita mathai rakhte hobe ei dhoroner proshno jeno amader shontander na ashe, freindly houa ta onek important with kids. noile birat mistake korar por ora shikar korena karon onek khetre ma ebon babar support paina bole.