Is Living Together Acceptable ?

[Severus]

this piece of paper formality only started 150 years ago, FYI

[disher]

sounds tempting doesnt it? ki moja all da fun and no responsibility! jokhon tokhon chere chure notun life er khoje..kintu vaii saab bura hoile k dekhbe?? char din ki chadni ye jawani hay jassi! r religion , socirty kew ye accept kore na jokhon tar manne sumthin must be worng wid it, aint it? so long live marrige.!!

[Severus]

Originally Posted by disher

sounds tempting doesnt it? ki moja all da fun and no responsibility! jokhon tokhon chere chure notun life er khoje..kintu vaii saab bura hoile k dekhbe?? char din ki chadni ye jawani hay jassi! r religion , socirty kew ye accept kore na jokhon tar manne sumthin must be worng wid it, aint it? so long live marrige.!!

onek living together couple thake jara shara jeebon aksathei thake... abar onek married couple e khub taratarie divorced or talaked hoye jay ... now you fiegure, lovelessly sharajeebon aksathe thaka bhalo kina ?

[labonno]

not acceptable......ami responsibility nite jani, ta chara, as icy n jhora pata n lamia said j socially n ethically its not acceptable........

jara live together accept koren tara mainly responsibility nite chan na.....r ekta kotha bolen j understanding er jonne naki dorkar......bt understanding emon ekta bepar jar jonne pura life dorkar....do u know why???.......bcoz life different turn e amra onek kisu notun face kori.......jekhane kisukhoner jonne holeu amader mutual understanding norbore hoye jai.....sheitai niyom.....r sheikhan thekei ashol leasson ta paua jai,..........bt jokhon live together kore keu, tokhon ei dhoroner situation e hal chere dei, bt marriage er belai ta hoi na normally.......

live together mane any time u can come out from tht relationship,without any explanation........
ekta post k keu ekjon bolsen j to understand each other some plp prefer live together.......bt ei understanding er jonne live together er ki dorkar.....affair korlei to hoi..........r eikhane j understanding er kotha bola hoyeche sheita amar mathai dhuke na........

r life jodi ekta marriage er moto ekta relation er responsibility nai nite parlo ekta manush , taile parlo ta ki????.........keu bolben aro onek responsibility ase life e...........ke bolse nai....bt ei responsibility ta ki different na?????...........ekta successful married life koijon pai???...ken pai na???....coz tara partner er upor tar j duty sheita perfectly fulfill koren na.........

onek bollam......pore abar mon chaile bolbo........

[junkviper]

Living Together Might Not Be Smart

1. Higher Divorce Rate
Perhaps the most compelling and widespread argument against living together before marriage is that several researchers say it increases the risk of breaking up. Virtually all studies of this topic have shown that the chance of divorce is significantly greater for married couples who lived together first. And in 1992, the National Survey of Families and Households found that, in 3,300 families, married couples who had lived together first were judged to be 46 percent more likely to get divorced.

2. Lower Quality of Life
When it comes to living together, more research suggests that the quality of life for unmarried couples is far lower than for married couples. Researchers David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead say cohabiting couples report lower levels of happiness, lower levels of sexual exclusivity and sexual satisfaction, and poorer relationships with their parents. Annual rates of depression are more than three times higher. And, finally, cohabiting women are more likely than married women to suffer physical and sexual abuse.

3. Living Together Doesn't Necessarily Lead to Marriage
After five to seven years, 21 percent of most cohabitating couples are still doing just that -- cohabitating, without getting married. In a new study by Popenoe and Whitehead, one of the top 10 reasons why men said that they are reluctant to get married at all is because they can simply live with a woman -- and enjoy the same benefits.

Information from The National Marriage Project at Rutgers University.

[kenshin]

Bottom line is ja religion forbid korse ta kono bhabey kora uchit na and legall na. I dont think je Rutgers University te oi project e kono muslim ase kaon keu jodi thakto tahole shala eto research na koira direct boilla dito je dont do it.

[disher]

Originally Posted by Severus

onek living together couple thake jara shara jeebon aksathei thake... abar onek married couple e khub taratarie divorced or talaked hoye jay ... now you fiegure, lovelessly sharajeebon aksathe thaka bhalo kina ?

na lovelessly thakbo na..but live together mane ki love er sathe thake???

[Force_Recon]

contract is only a simple piece of paper

so is our constitution and all judicial laws.

[Severus]

Originally Posted by disher

na lovelessly thakbo na..but live together mane ki love er sathe thake???

actually love thake boilai to manush live together kore

[junkviper]

Originally Posted by kenshin

Bottom line is ja religion forbid korse ta kono bhabey kora uchit na and legall na. I dont think je Rutgers University te oi project e kono muslim ase kaon keu jodi thakto tahole shala eto research na koira direct boilla dito je dont do it.

I discussed religious points yester day. Obviously there is no scope for living together.
But today I cited the study report from western part where liv tog is allowed....

Niropekkho arki........