Mother Continues Job After having a Child

[DyingSoul]

i think baby hobar pore maa der job continue kora ta tik na..baby'r proper care hoy na..

[Icy]

Job korata thik kina eta jar jar personal bepar.. But baby'r take care kora hoina eta very much true.. Ami amar nijer boner bachha gulorey dekhsi.. Tara office kore jokhon pichhi gulo bashai shompurno eka thake or kajer meyer kase thake.. Eta mane eta noi j they don't love them.. But time onek kom dite pare.. Eta baby der jonno onek loss.. But tarporeo ami Maa der job support kori.. Coz pura duniyatai jekhane commercial hoye gese Ma ra commercial hoile prob ki?

[DyingSoul]

amar ek frnd ace..o hobar age porjonto or maa job korto..bt jokhon o holo..tar por por e or maa job chere dise just to look after her child..and amar oi frnd ta jokhon boro hoye gese..tokhon abar job e dhukse or maa..i really respect this tyt of parents..

maa ra commertial hole prob nai..bt baby hobar pore kicu din..at least joto din baby ta bujhte na parce..toto din job na kora uchit maa der..

[Severus]

ma ra job korte gele baccha der self-efficient houyar chance bere jay

[DyingSoul]

and at the same time introverts hoye jay..

[Tepantor]

MA chakri korle bachchar proper care hoina eta thik.
Tobe jodi join familyte thaka hoi she khetre bachchar dadi fupu shobai mile care nite pare.....
KIntu bangladeshe ekhon join family khuej pauai to jaina.
Ma chakri korle bachcha kichhuta ekakitte bhuge.....bashai hoito buar kachhe rekhe ma chakri korte chole gelo bua thik moto dekha shona korbena.

Tobe ami eita manina bachcha houar por mayer ekar e chakri chhere boshe thakte hobe..........babar ki kono dayeetto nai?
Jodi ma chakri te choel jai she khetre babar uchit bachchake kichhuta shomoi deua............

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lol..... baccha care khali keno ma nibe ? baba r vumika o to kom na ... baba der o chakri chara uchit...tai na ?

[alana]

akhon ma chakri charbe bacha boro hobe thn abar chakri join korbe chakrir bajar ato bhalo bole amar mone hoy na..ma chakri khali nijer jonne kore na ai sob bachar future er jonnei kore.day care centers gulo ache ...bachar nani dadi khala sob e ache..ar amader deshe bacha niye jai poriman chanachani kora hoy oita otirikto ...bacha k joto nijer moto boro hote deya jay toto bhalo.bidesheo polapan boro hoy nd khub bhalo motoi boro hoy.amader deshei chele meye ra hoy besi emotional,jedi ar stupid...otirikto ador er jonne aita hoy.
bt ma thakle tader takecare besi hoy ai ta true bt job kora maye ra ai bapare jodi aktu concern hoy tahole ar problem hoy na...4 ta bochor er pore to bachao school e jete start kore...i dont think ma er job kora ta bachader jonne khub khotikor kichu...
akta bacha tar mayer nari shadhinota ke khunno korte pare na...
ami jokhon kono public porikha disi tokhon kintu ami meye bole amar syllabus kom chilo na cheleder theke...amar khata easily dekhe nai teacher ra..amk sob jayga tei cheleder sathe compete korte hoise akta cheler moto korei..kothao ami char pai ni...tahole amar akta chele class mate jodi full time job korte pare tahole amk keno amar ta chere dite hobe?akta meyer upor sob kichu depend kore na...baba ra jodi careful hoy tar child er proti nd respected hoy tar wife er proti tahole kono bachai kharap kono problem e porbe na mayer jonne
more over introverting!!introvert ki khali jai sob cheler mayera job kore tarai hoyy?r keu hoy na?ami to dekhsi school college e jai sob mayer ra all time tader chele meyer sathe athar moto lege thake tara besi introvert hoy.!
chele meyer dohai diye keu mayer job kora atkache aita khub e hino chesta!

[DyingSoul]

bepar dekhi meye r chele der devidation e chole jacche..oi vabe bolte gele to bola lage je chele meye soman bolar poreo bus e jokhon 1ta chele r 1ta meye ek sathe daray thake..r jokhon 1ta seat faka hoy..tokhon keno bola hoy ba bolte shuni je mohila ta daray ace..mohila ta boshuk..?

ei khane bepar ei ta na je maa and baba..baccha'r take care korar jonno 1 jonke dorkar..that's the point..

and school-college is not the level..oi time e baccha der sathe je e sara din lege thakuk na keno..baccha'r birokto lagbe..bt still ami ekhono ei rokom shuni je onekei bolce "janish..choto belay ami eka eka boro hoyeci..shokal bela uthe dekhtam je amar parents keu bashay nai..bashay khali kajer bua r ami..ami sara din baranday daray wait kortam kokhon abbu-ammu ashbe.."

situation jodi oi rokom e hoye thake je maa der job chara jabe na..tahole ekhon ei rokom kotha shunte hoy keno..?

and maa ra baba'r theke valo look after korte pare..thats why maa er kotha tai 1st e ashe..

[Lamia]

Bachcha ke niye chanachani? ekta manusher development to childhood thekei.. oi time ta manush seriously dekhbe na? I mean oi time ta tei to shobcheye careful n sincere thaka uchit parents relatives n shobari.. eita ke chanachani bola jay naki ami sure na.. bachcha ke nijer moto boro hote deoar beparta ami 100% support korina.. ekta bachcha ke jodi chotobela thekei freedom diye chere deoa hoy, den tader ki hoy eta chokher shamne onekkei dekhtesi.. bidesher kotha to alada.. oder western culture.. oder culture erokom je, ora boro hobe, about 16 er por theke ora bolte gele 90% freedom peye jabe.. 18 er por ora move out korbe.. n averagely most of them will hardly keep ne contacts with their parents later.. amader culture ki eita? eitake ami valo moto boro houa bolbona..

newayz, in some ways I do agree with Alana apu, that chele meyer sathe athar moto lege thakle chele meye kerokom kore boro hobe tar o examples amra shobai dekhsi.. newayz beshi bolbona.. ekhon baba o ba keno ma er opor totally dependent hobe? orokom baba hoile to alada kotha.. sharings thakbe shob kichuri.. baba o time dibe bachchader jotokhanik pare..
personally ami future e erokom situation e porle job korbona.. not coz of the women rights, but some tiny little sacrifice for my kids.. emon familes to ache, jara financially ektu weak, bou jodi income kore oita oneek khanik help hoy, orokom situation exceptional.. n yes hazar hazar families ache who thinks je jamai ra job korbe.. bou der ghar e shob chepe dibe.. bou chakri to durer kotha bashar sudhu kaaj korbe ar kids take care korbe.. that’s it.. now that’s called introvert..! egulao obviously not right..
JAI HOK, I think a mother plays the biggest role of all (jeta amra atodin sikhe ashchi), n of course father to achei.. And at the time of a kid’s development, mother er role ta strong thaka important..