Mother Continues Job After having a Child

[anikaputush]

Tomra jeta 'natural' bolteso seta society te amra obhabe obbhostho hoye ashchi bolei, dekhe ashchi bolei amader kache natural lage. Nothing else than that.
Ekhon jodi situation ta reverse hoto tahole tomra oitai natural bolta I mean jodi Baba ke dekhe ashtam sobsomoy bacchar jotno nicche ar most Ma ra job korche.
Eishob niyom society'r banano. Amader banano. You can't deny that.
Adim juge jodi female ra bolto "beta tui guhae thak..ami jai shikar kore ani" tahole mone hoy ajker situation ta reverse hoye jaito

[shakib]

job kora uchit kina asole ata depend kore family decision r upor...amader bd te emon onek family ase jekhane meye ra service kore r pura family tar upor depend kore...sekhane after delivery mother r chakri na korar kono question e ase na..tahole to aam o jabe shala o jabe...

age bangladesh govt rules chilo je sob maye ra job koren tara delivery r age o pore total (6+6 wk=12 wks) maternity leave paben..but now seta (8+8 wk=16 wks/4 months) hoyese....jodi ai time ta onek kom...coz akta new born baby r mother's milk atleast 5/6 months dorkar hoi...r amra jani ai mother's milk new born baby k early days a protect kore various disease theke nd also it makes a bonding between mother & baby....

akhon onek office a dekha jai je baby der jonno alada akta room thake jekhane service mother ra tader baby rakhte paren...time to time khobor o nite paren...

so ami mone kori na baby howar por mother r job chara uchit....jodi o ai decision ta purotai family,husband wife r relation r upor depend kore...

[AngeL_EyeZ]

Achcha..ami bujhtesi na...chele ra eto easy ekta jinish keno bujhe na?...ekhane bola hoynai je shara jibon-er moto job chere diye Maa shara din bachcha'er take-care korbe...abar'o boli...When the baby comes in the world...she/he needs a full-time care until she/he is 4/5 yrs old!...and ei koyta year ekta meye/maa job na korle amon ki khoti hoy?? The mother can re-join in her work-place when her kid is 4-5 yrs old! ... ei jinish ta bujhte chesta koro boys....ekta bachcha r upor tar maa'er provab onek beshi...bachcha ra maa ke dekhei shikhe!!


Ajke Priyo "SenSeTransp()rt" asked me, "what if the girl's husband is disable to work or dead...tokhon maa kivabe bachcha r khoroch chalabe?...ofcourse the baby needs the care but the mother shouldn't leave her job..she needs money to raise the kid..."

I answered him saying "if money matters...and jodi shei meye'r jamai na thake or he's disable to work than the girl shouldn't give a birth to the baby because they've money crisis and ei oboshtai ekta baby na neya tai better"


I explained enough! Good Luck to the wives!

[anikaputush]

Ajkalkar dine job pawa shohoj kotha na. Bollei hoyna je 4-5 yrs por job keno pabena? Onek job ei age limit ase. Experience er beparo ase. Ei point guli dhorae dewar somoy jodi mohila job er interview e jeye bole "ami 5 bochor amar bacchar take care korsi, ami office er kaj o ebhabe take care korte parbo." Eta ki qualification hishabe dhora hobe n consider kora hobe? Jodi hoy then thats gr8!

Ami onek age ekta article porsilam keno Bangali mohilara onek bochor wait korar por ar job e firey jete parena, abar notun kore job shuru korte parena. They have the education, they have the qualification. Kintu tara family nd society theke shei support ta paena jeta pawa uchit. Bacchakaccha manush korar ojuhate bepar ta erae jawa hoy.

ar Husband mara gele bacchar bhoronposhoner dayitto to Ma kei nite hobe jodi ar keu na thake depend korar, naki? Etai Priyotosh bujhaite chaise. Ar jodi disable hoy taholei eki hishab. Taka chara ki diye take care korbe disable husband ar bacchar? Ar financial problem bole baccha nibe ki nibena eta tader personal bepar. Ekhane uchit onuchit bole kisu nai. Besides, baccha newa niye kotha hocchena. Howar por Ma job continue korbe ki na ta niye.

Finally, ekjon Ma job continue korbe ki na setar decision takei nitey hobe. Ta ke physically, mentally, psychologically ready thakte hobe. If she is believes that she can continue, tar husband and familyr uchit jothashaddho support dewa.

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logically amake keo bujhan , breast feeding chara r kon part tar jonno baba r ma r moddhe difference ase ? amra boli ma ra baba der chay beshi take care korte pare , tar karon kintu ektai amra meyeder ke ghore atke rakhsi , taader kaj tai take care kora . tai tara valo pare. jodi ekta chele o try kore shey o valo parbe. ekta meye jokhon after giving birth 3-6 month er maternity leave ney , shei leave shesh hoar por ekta cheleo to pitritto-kalin chuti nite pare ..tai na !! 6-6 = 1 year jodi 2 jon mile cover kore dey then to r problem hoa kotha na ....

amra ekta chele r career ke career mone kori , r vabi meyeder ta career e na. ke jeno dekhlam bolse meyeder jonno suitable job teaching. khubi offensive laglo kotha ta .... suitable mane ki ? amra job e kao gayer jore mara mari kori na or kamla r kaj kori na. kaj jeikhane mathar sheikhan e aivabe geneder wise job alada kore discrimination er shujog nai. borong joto din jacche meyera porashunay aro valo kortese and soon dekha jabe cheleder chay meye ra valo chakri korbe.

[AngeL_EyeZ]

breast-feeding chara ar kono special care Maa kore na, eita tomare ke bollo? taile to breast-feeding er dorkar hoito na...fider diyei kaaj chalano jay..

shob kichu logically chinta korte gele biye shadi o kora uchit na meye der...ar bachcha to dur-er kotha...hayre

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accha , amake ektu bolo r special care ki ?

ami osshikar kortesi na , ma jehetu shontan ke jonmo dey , tai ma r sathe shontan er relation ta onno rokom. kintu din er 6-8 hrs na dekha hoilei realtion je ekbare venge porbe ta to na ...tai na ? ar baba r satheo shontan er deep relation ase. ekhon maxm babai jeebon jebikar khatire bashatei thakte pare na maxm time. to shontan er to eteo manoshik bikash khunno hocche. fol e to baba keo chakri chere ghore boshe thakte hobe ...tai na ?

asol kotha hocche , ekta balanced combination lagbe. mutual understanding er upor base kore baccha ke time dite hobe 2 jon kei. job chara kono solution na.


r arekta kotha , jara khub easily chele khelar moto bole ditese chakri chere dite , then 4-5 bosor por abar job e dhukte , tader professional life ki bostu and chakri r bazar ki bostu shei shomporke 1% idea o nai , I can bet.

[shakib]

ami kisui bujtesi na akjon maa k kano baccha howar por job charte hobe...agei bolesi govt thekei maternity leave 4 months paoya jai...then keu iccha korle seta k bariye nite pare...tar jonno ai noi je job theke resign dite hobe...jotosob faltu kotha ....

@ tanha apu...apni bolesen baby r 4/5 yr howa porjonto akjon maa chakri theke duure theke then re join korte paren...apu ata ki possible amader desh a...amar mone hoi na...jekhane most of da ppl live frm hand to mouth.sekhane ai rokom akaash khusum kolpona korai onek kothin...take keu 100% surety dite parbe na je 4/5 yr por take abar job a chance dewa hobe..


amar personal opinion holo job charar kono kothai ase na....

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ghure fire shobai eki kothai boltese. well ami er por temon kono variation na ashle r post korbo na karon eki kotha bar bar bole laav nai. amar conclusion hocche...

ekjon ma e paren tar upojukto decs nite. ekjon ma e bujhben tar chakri chara uchit naki rakha uchit. eivabe bolar kono mane nai , mother should leave her job. amra 10 hat dure boshe net e torko kore botle pari na , what a mother should do , specially ekjon ma ke tar duty shikhanor dhrishto-ta amader dekhano uchit na. ma e best bolte parben what she should do. Ma jodi mone koren shontan er proper care er jonno tini chakri charben , then its fine. abar ma jodi vaben tini chakri charben na ... then thats good also. and eita KONO MOT EI BOLAR SCOPE NAI FIRST MA SECOND EI MA ER TULONAY BESHI RESPONSIBLE OR BESHI CARING OR ANYTHING ELSE. EITA BOLA JE SHUDHU VUL TAI NA , MA KE DARUN VABE OPOMAN KORAO.

[alana]

Originally Posted by AngeL_EyeZ

[b][font="Georgia"]Achcha..ami bujhtesi na...chele ra eto easy ekta jinish keno bujhe na?...ekhane bola hoynai je shara jibon-er moto job chere diye Maa shara din bachcha'er take-care korbe...abar'o boli...When the baby comes in the world...she/he needs a full-time care until she/he is 4/5 yrs old!...and ei koyta year ekta meye/maa job na korle amon ki khoti hoy?? The mother can re-join in her work-place when her kid is 4-5 yrs old! ... ei jinish ta bujhte chesta koro boys....ekta bachcha r upor tar maa'er provab onek beshi...bachcha ra maa ke dekhei shikhe!!

4/5 years pore ki bacha ta ki ar aka aka feel kore na?kore..nd for ur kind information ..amr ma job koren jokhon ami class 7 e pori tokhn theke ..nd tokhon ma jokhon office e jeto ami tar pichu pichu dorja porjonto jeye ghen ghen kortam jeno ammu na jay office e!!!ma baba k miss korbe na chele meye aita kokhono hote pare na nd ami oi ghen ghen ta kortam keno???karon amar choto bela theke habit chilo na ..still now amar jedin uni close thake ami aka aka basay thaki ...amr khub e aka aka lage...tai jonne amar ma k ki job chere dite hobe??se to ami jokhon choto chilam always amar sathe chilo amk take care korse..ami to tao take akhono chai amar kache...nd parle akhono take boli j keno tumi protidin office e jao keno amar sahte thako na??tahole ki lav holo tar amk oi choto belay time diye?dosharop to ami akhono korte pari.!!!

Ajke Priyo "SenSeTransp()rt" asked me, "what if the girl's husband is disable to work or dead...tokhon maa kivabe bachcha r khoroch chalabe?...ofcourse the baby needs the care but the mother shouldn't leave her job..she needs money to raise the kid..."

I answered him saying "if money matters...and jodi shei meye'r jamai na thake or he's disable to work than the girl shouldn't give a birth to the baby because they've money crisis and ei oboshtai ekta baby na neya tai better"[/quote]


hoyto ai obosthay baby na neya better bt manusher life e always better ta hoy na tai na???karo husband jodi hotat kore mara jan nd tar mrittur por baby delivery hoy tokhon?kon poristhitite baby neya uchit kon poristhiti te uchit na aita kotha hoche na...kotha hoche after the baby comes thn wut?


And again sobai j boltese 4/5 bochor por ma abaro job start korbe..ake to job market ato easy na tar upor khub kom parents e akta matro bhacha ney ...so jodi akhon kar normal rule hisebe aakjon ma dui ta baby ney tahole se 4/5 + abaro 4/5 amon kore 9/10 years dhore bachai palbe..special care nibe nd tarpore ke kothay ase ai sob ma k chakri deyar jonne???25 e akta me jodi biye kore n 27 a akta bacha ney thn 10 years dhore tar dui bacha pale tahole age hoy 37!tokohn chakri take dibe k ar ai mayer ki manoshikota thake ar chakri korar??manush er poralikhar 1 year break porlei sob kichu kemon elomelo hoye jay ar ai 10 years pore oi ma ta kemon kore job korbe???