Sex Before Marriage

[pagla_hawa]

omg my fear is what if i get pregnant? and then the guy runs off and doesnt take care of the baby. what will happen then? at leaste if you do it after marriage, its an obvious thing that the two ppl wil have kids so it wont be such a shock its really happens....get what i mean?

but i still find is so hard and shocking to believe ppl in BD nowdays do it. i didnt think they would have the guts....we have so many barriers...religion, parents, culture, tradition....it just never came across in my head.

its funny how so many bengalis living overseas are so much conservative than the ones living in BD. i couldnt imagine kissing a boy at this age let alone anything further...


oh god the fear....

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by krYpTik

sex before marriage.. such an unpredictable topic to talk about
Love has no barrier.. coz ppl say love is bLind.. love is all about emotions..
banglay ekta chorom shotto ache - : cheleray chay shongo ar meyera chay sporsho"
bhalobashay shob kichu jayez...
if we refer to islamic and ethical codes.. then amader religion ekta meyer hath dhora o Haram.. amader bangladeshi culture ke o refer kore dekhi then ekta meye ke date e niye jawa amader culture e nei...
jodi biyer age sex kora prohibited .. or haram.. or itz a big sin... I ACCEPT IT.. ami eta bolchina je eta kora uchit... moteo na.. tobe eta kharap chokhe dekhar mane hoy na..
secondly... ami eta o mani je meyera Ma er jaath... tobe.. je meyetar life noshto korbe je cheleta.. ore rastay ene JOOTA diye pitanor dorkar...
ar je meye sex kore bf er shate..and breakup hoye jai..and she goes out with sum1 else.. then shez a beech etay amader society bole..
but when are we gonna develop our thinking....
coz jodi dekha jai amader cheye beshi sacrifice kore meyera... bhalobashay sex hote paree.. jodi both the sides are determined to get married..
tay bola hoy prem koro buje shune koro.. tobe prem ke beshi din dhore rekho na.. coz LOVE IS A TEMPORARY DISEASE...CURABLE ONLY BY MARRIAGE..
je couple khub olpo age e affair kore... they have to wait a long time to get married.. so what abt the emotions... tay amar keno jani mone hoy .. prem jokhon korboy tho kenona ekta adult stage e giye kori.. then khub easily biye o kora jai....
amra ki amader gf/bf ke kiss kori na.. smooch kori na? ache keu ekane je shotto bhabe prokash korbe that he/she never smooched his/her partner...
smooch ki er beshi o hoye jai ajkaal.. eta ekta chorom shotto..
90% meyera etay bolbe je sex b4 marriage teek na.. BUT tay bole ki ora onno kichu korche na... shetar ki hobe?
dhore nilam.. i had an affair.. i dint have sex .. but we were pretty close.. and biye holo na.. thokon ami amar future wife ke ki bolbo? je sex kori nai but smooch korechi and etc...
meyeder purity jodi otho beshi important hoye thake then i tink meyer hath o dhorar dorkar nei...
JODI NIJER BHALOBASHAR UPOR AND NIJER UPOR CONFIDENCE THAKE.. then sex korte kono shomossha nei... amra kauke jodi mon pran diye bhalobeshe thaki.. then or jonne ja icha korte raji thakboy.. coz itz all abt TRUST...
prem kono bacha khela noy....
culture bideshi hok ya bangladeshi...it doesnt matter how we grow up.. coz love jokhon intense hoiye jai in any kind of couple tHokon culture.. religion.. ethics kaje ashena..
amra tho ar oishob dekhe prem e pori na... cases will differ.. but we know how to adjust and sacrifice..
itz all da same.. coz generation is changing..and comin back to culture.. are we honestly following a true bangladeshi culture.. no we are not..
when we say lets develop and enhance our thinking.. thokon manush bole je western hoye gese.. jeta ekebarey bhul.. wester hobar kichu nei.. itz all abt development and enhancing our thinking....
AMI KAUKE PERSONALLY ATTACK KORCHINA.. KORLE REALLY SORRY
AMI KHUB RESPECT KORI EY BEPAR TA KE..
TOBE SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE IS NOT A SIN.. IF IT WAS SIN... THEN I TINK WE SHUD NEVER FALL IN LOVE...
ekane jani na koijon prem kore.. or korche.. i aint refering to any of my golpo forum friends.. i just shared my opinion too
OVERALL..SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS NOT PROHIBITED..BUT ITZ BETTER TO AVOID IT.. CONTROL THAKA TA BIG DEAL...
BUT IF WE REALLY CARE AND LOVE OUR PARTNER TRULY WE CAN WAIT..
ITZ ALL ABOUR OPPURTUNITY.. EVERTHING IS UNPREDICTABLE...
bhai re bhai eto boro essay likhe feLLam damn !

i think i agree with u here..ami ja bolte chaisi akdom shundor kore guchai bolso...sex duznt follow ne religion or ne society rulez..jokhon hoye jai..u cant stop..jus becuz da so called "western" ppl r more open nd we r more conservative..duznt mean we hav different feelingz...cuz dey r humanz nd so r we...
amader society mane na..but oder society mane..ths it..
nd it all dependz on da ppl nd how much dey trust each oder..
u hav to hav tht thing..like u hav to b DAM SURE tht ur not leavin each other...thn r kono prb nai i guess........

[Canny]

Ami ICY vaiyer shathe agree kori, biyer age physical relation na howai valo, karon jodi pore biye na hoe. Tobe din bodlay gese, Ekhon oneki ei bisoygula chinta kore na. Ekta chele biyer age hoeto 1 or more meyer shathe relation silo. Hoeto physical relation silo. Sei chele obossoi virgin meye khuzbe na, Ar meyeder khetreo tai ghotbe. Orthat keu jodi mone kore tar sex korle biye na korleo kisu jay ase na tahole se korte pare.Bortomane Emon onekei mone kore.
Ar religion er kotha bolle bolbo amra Physical relation er cheye aro onek boro kobira gunah protidin e kortesi. So....eta... Ami personally etar against e. Reason emon onek gula ghotona ami kaser theke deksi je physical relation er por affair venge gese. Ar emon couple khub kom e deksi bd te jara biye na kore long time dhore live together kore ashtese but relation stable hoese.

[disher]

sex b4 marrige is a big no no for me..!! hehehe

[Force_Recon]

but i still find is so hard and shocking to believe ppl in BD nowdays do it. i didnt think they would have the guts....we have so many barriers...religion, parents, culture, tradition....it just never came across in my head.

we also have so many groups working for "progression" of our minds.thousands of foreign organisations. and media too.
I am against fornication.Its haram.

[Severus]

thread er naam e kisu change ashse dekha jay ... what before marriage ?

[reemz]

i don't think it's anything to do with how your parents bring you up purely because they brought me up teaching me Islam, my culture etc but I admit I'm not a virgin. I know its wrong before marriage but its not right to blame my parents because its not their fault at all.

[}|Serial_Killer|{]

haha....honest confession

[kenshin]

Atleast you hav the guts to admit it. I know a couple of people who are basically the village bicycle. every1 has had a ride on them but still they say that they cant even spell sex

[Severus]

reemz : explain why it's wrong