Sex Before Marriage

[OlIk_MaYa]

Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

i think i agree with u here..ami ja bolte chaisi akdom shundor kore guchai bolso...sex duznt follow ne religion or ne society rulez..jokhon hoye jai..u cant stop..jus becuz da so called "western" ppl r more open nd we r more conservative..duznt mean we hav different feelingz...cuz dey r humanz nd so r we...
amader society mane na..but oder society mane..ths it..
nd it all dependz on da ppl nd how much dey trust each oder..
u hav to hav tht thing..like u hav to b DAM SURE tht ur not leavin each other...thn r kono prb nai i guess........

i totally agree with u... bie ta to 1ta commitment...jodi afaire karo mone hoy, they r that committed, they hv rached that level...then it doesnt seem wrong 2 me...r jodi shei level e jaoar poro kono karone afair work out na kore..thats fate. bier poreo to manusher divorce hoy...

r jodi religion er kotha boli..ya its haram..keu jodi sheta mathay rekhe kisu na kore bier age...that's very good... but amra kotota mani religion er kotha?? dhorme to ase mittha bola jabe na...ekhane to 1ta thread ase kokhon mittha bolsi last-- tokhon to keu bollo na mittha bola haram..dhorme to drink korao mana- koi etao to karo kase temon matter kore bole idaning mone hoy na...so ei debate e dhormer perspective ante chaitesi na...

anyway...onek bole felsi... mul kotha hoilo, if u hv reached that level of love i think b4 or after doesnt really matter...

[reemz]

Originally Posted by Severus

reemz : explain why it's wrong

why its wrong? well Islam has always taught us that you should only have sex with your husband. Damned is the woman or man that fornicates and before marriage you're not even supposed to communicate with a ghair mahram. so sex is a big NO NO.

what's the point of lying and saying that you are a virgin when you're not? even if you have sex with a guy that you know you're going to marry doesn't make it right because what's the guarantee that he is really going to marry you?

[junkviper]

guarantee kono baper na.

150% guarantee thakleo ami bolbo: "SEX b4 marriage is prohibited in ISLAM. " Kono jukti khojar dorkar nai. no argument. QUran er jukti khondon korar kono right nai. Apni manle manen, na manle apni hishab diben.

[AngeL_EyeZ]

Originally Posted by junkviper

guarantee kono baper na.

150% guarantee thakleo ami bolbo: "SEX b4 marriage is prohibited in ISLAM. " Kono jukti khojar dorkar nai. no argument. QUran er jukti khondon korar kono right nai. Apni manle manen, na manle apni hishab diben.

Right! but...now-a-days how many ppl listen to Quran??? I mean Quran e toh onek kichu prohibited kore dise...shobai ki shob kichu mene chole? chole na...apnar-amar kache jeta prohibited sheta arekjon er kache "obosshoi korte hobe" type kichu ekta...tai na ??...so bole laav nai..

[kenshin]

bole labh nai ei kothata bhul. Je right tar shob shomoy uchit wrong manushke thik kotha ta bola. Atleast boila take thk korar cheshta kora karon keu jodi ekjon bul ideals wala manushke thik korar cheshta na kore tahole shei manushta boltei to pare je ami bhul pothe gesi karon keu amake thik poth dekhai nai. Islam o Quraneo ei bepare kotha bola ase. Allah jokhon kono clan (jati) ke dhongsho koira dito tokhon tini shei shimajer hate gona bhalo manushder spare korten na karon ei bhalo manushra shomaj take thik korar cheshta kore nai. Anu junkviper er shathe agree kor je Islam er kono bepare jukti khujar dorkar nai karon jukti khujte jaia manush aro beshi atheist hoia jai (karon she thik jaigai jukti khuje nai). Ami eitao mone kori je apne jodi Islam e bola kisu na manen then dont be angry at some1 who pointed it out that u are wrong. Eto kisu bollam bhaiben na je ami serious religius kono manush. I am sorry to say je ami dine ek wakto namazo pori na. That doesnt mean je Islam jei laws ar principles amake shikhaise ta ami borjon korbo.

[darkcrunk]

I am sinful. Sex before marriage is indeed very sinful, dire and putrid of an act. I pray to God that He forgives me for my sins, for I shall commit none from this day on.

[junkviper]

darkcrunk:

May allah listen to u and my best wishes for u my frend.


"Tell the believing men that they shall subdue their eyes, and to maintain their chastity. This is purer for them. God is fully Cognizant of everything they do.

And tell the believing women to subdue their eyes, and to maintain their chastity..........."

Quran sura24:ayah30-31

so plz apni palon na korle sheta apnar pap. But dnt argue with the matter where allah directly prohibited !
and what is the pt to debate which is clearly stated in QURAN!

[reemz]

Originally Posted by junkviper

darkcrunk:

so plz apni palon na korle sheta apnar pap. But dnt argue with the matter where allah directly prohibited !
and what is the pt to debate which is clearly stated in QURAN!

You forget that not every Bengali is Muslim...

[Pristine]

its wholly personal choice...religion er dohai diye labh nai...je personally bliv kore it doesnt matter, he will do it...ar je korbena she emnitei korbena...

persoanlly speaking, i think sex before marriage with the person u love is no sin...when u love sum1 ,u lovve with ur mind and body..if u can give ur mind, u gave everything...

[Major Chachi]

I believe in the Bible and it says it's wrong....from my point of view, i see it screws most marriages up....most not all...but I say the majority of them it screws them up