Sex Before Marriage

[self_shattered]

Originally Posted by bengaltiger

lets forget abt religion and culture for a second and concentrate on plain logic

if u loose it b4 marriage...then u wud b sleepin atleast 20-30 times before getting married...n it wud b hard to b loyal to ur wife after marriage...cuz after those 20-30 times...ur wife/hubby...would not seem that special...ull get bored...n ull want biryani from outside...

on the other hand if u wait till marriage...then ur wife/hubby is the only sex u know abt....u havent tried anything else.....so ur wife/hubby is the best thing u ever tried...ur less likely 2 get bored...n more likely 2 stay loyal

I too agree
Its about Loyality
And we can also say that Whats the need of marriage then???

[k-9]

Originally Posted by bengaltiger

lets forget abt religion and culture for a second and concentrate on plain logic

if u loose it b4 marriage...then u wud b sleepin atleast 20-30 times before getting married...n it wud b hard to b loyal to ur wife after marriage...cuz after those 20-30 times...ur wife/hubby...would not seem that special...ull get bored...n ull want biryani from outside...

on the other hand if u wait till marriage...then ur wife/hubby is the only sex u know abt....u havent tried anything else.....so ur wife/hubby is the best thing u ever tried...ur less likely 2 get bored...n more likely 2 stay loyal

gud point...and very true :P............. lol...if loyalty is all dat matters...then definitely..... buh wat if a person is loyal to his wife...buh has slept with others before the marriage...its not impossible is it??...... newaz...... gud point :P

[alana]

boredom er kotha astese ken...u ppl think that after marriage for 30 year or 40 or so on ppl wont get bored?nd if anyone who has a mind to bring biriyani frm outside,they will never change...
after marriage sex eo ppl canbe bored very easily nd they will want more nd who duznt?suppose u neva belong any mercedese..that dusnt mean that u will neva sick for it..

wuts in sex?sex dusnt need loyality or trust stuffz...but to lead a happy life trust,layality those are important.nd a person who had sex before marriage with other girl can definitly love her wife after marriage.y not?i dont give sex that much priority actualy.

[bengaltiger]

Originally Posted by alana

boredom er kotha astese ken...u ppl think that after marriage for 30 year or 40 or so on ppl wont get bored?nd if anyone who has a mind to bring biriyani frm outside,they will never change...
after marriage sex eo ppl canbe bored very easily nd they will want more nd who duznt?suppose u neva belong any mercedese..that dusnt mean that u will neva sick for it..

exactly...but its just less likely for a person to loose his virginity to his wife n then try 2 find sm1 else.....lets think abt ur example...suppose u drive audi...n all ur life u ve driven audi...u have no idea that a car called mercedez exists....so then how wud u want a mercedez....

but ur right...biryani jisnay baher sa khaani ho...usnay baher se hi khaana no matter wat...its just less likely for someone who saved themselves for marriage

[k-9]

Originally Posted by bengaltiger

exactly...but its just less likely for a person to loose his virginity to his wife n then try 2 find sm1 else.....lets think abt ur example...suppose u drive audi...n all ur life u ve driven audi...u have no idea that a car called mercedez exists....so then how wud u want a mercedez....

but ur right...biryani jisnay baher sa khaani ho...usnay baher se hi khaana no matter wat...its just less likely for someone who saved themselves for marriage

a person who doesnt kno that there is mercedez out there???..... i doubt there r ppl like der... dey shud atleast kno there r rols royace...or porsha... or atleast honda and toyota........ :P.... there always other options......... wat matters is... is he sticking to his audi...... if he wants... he can go for nethin else he wants.......... and der r loaads out there..... even for rent ........ (lol...)

[kenshin]

K-9 bhai it doesnt matter if we can change cars or rent them. what matters is that the jesture u made is direclty forbidden in Islam and so we shudnt even consider once about doing it.

[junkviper]

girls , why dnt u protest? u r bein compared with cars!
This is the problem with havin sex b4 marriage, girls become an object for enjoyment. they loose dignity. Thats why islam strictly prohibited it.

[Russell]

Originally Posted by junkviper

ar meyera hoye gache mukto bazar orthonitir bazar...je keo access korte parbe license charai !

Hehe... mama apni koy jon ke access korsen?

[k-9]

Originally Posted by kenshin

K-9 bhai it doesnt matter if we can change cars or rent them. what matters is that the jesture u made is direclty forbidden in Islam and so we shudnt even consider once about doing it.

bhaijan... uporer jon ja boltase.... ami sheta counter kore boltasilum..... islamer kotha to ami aikhane boltasina...

and sth bout this forum is shocking me every minute... aikhane shobai ato gora muslim kano..... i mean..der is nuthin wrong with it...... but amne islam parade korar to kono dorkar nai....... and u shud keep ur faith to urself...... and i wud be damned if any of my friends from other religions wud join here.....and dat is discrimination and disgusting........

kothay kothay islam!!!!...... protekta post aki jinish...islam... god... muslim...culture...society...... and back to islam )

[anikaputush]

Originally Posted by junkviper

girls , why dnt u protest? u r bein compared with cars!
This is the problem with havin sex b4 marriage, girls become an object for enjoyment. they loose dignity. Thats why islam strictly prohibited it.

Jara compare korbe ekjon manush ke onno ekta bostur sathe sheita tar jonnoi lojjar bepar! karon she nijeo ekjon manush.
And bhaiya I don't think having sex before marriage takes away the dignity from a person, male or female. It doesn't make a person an object for enjoyment. Its just how we view people you know? Ar ei duniay shob point of view je valid ba logical hobe tao kintu na.
Ami shobshomoyi bole ashchi its a personal decision. Karo etake nichu korar dekhar kichu nai. Biyer age sex korlei ekjon manush kharap ba noshto hoye jaena. The person knows all the facts. Eta tar kache sin ki na shei bhalo bujhbe. Jor kore amader kichu bujhanor nai. Shudhu ektai jinish kheyal rakhte hobe je jar korlam ta diye jeno onner khoti na hoy ba ami nije jeno protaronar shikar na hoi.

Ar jara etake pesha hishabe nay (male/female prostitutes)tader bepare amar gyan to shimito. Accha Prostitution er bepare jekono dhorme ki bola hoise keu ki jane?