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really did not want to post here.. cuz i'm a tom boy at heart. but let me just intrude ladies

firstly pori darling... eyta tumi ki bolla... kew kew ugly so ugly ee thakbey no matter wat they do? lolzzzzzzzzz i kno u didnt mean anything, and i'm not starting beef, just saying it sounded wrong. really wrong. lolz
yes some ppl are not blessed with good looks, but they are blessed with other talents. and its a shame society overlooks them just cuz they do not look a certain way. anyways thats a whole diff issue.
but point being, which alana dahling stated, shundor nah dekkhey, tar maney nah j muk kala korey boshey thakbey. oder ki shauk hoy nah? just to look good for themselves? we are the toughest judges of ourselves. if u dunt like wat u see in the mirror, trust me u cant function. everyone has their lousy days, or bad days wen they complain and think to themselves, ami emon keno? u r a liar if u like every single thing abt urself every single day. not that its a bad thing, its gud to be pleased with oneself. Just that its normal for ppl to not like sumthing and try to improve it. and pori janeman, tumi bhulley o ey kotha r kawrey bolio nah plz. theres a thing called plastic surgery. tumar kotha shunney jodi agath pai shoja hospitalley jeye shob fix korey ashbey. lolzzzzz
and i do disagree with the point that make-up does not make ppl look better.
cuz it does. lolz shobai tv dekho? movies and music videos to even news, they wear make-up do they not? keno korey? too look better, be presentable, cuz the whole world is gona watch them.
hairdressers recommend a trim every three months to keep ure hair healthy, and make-up artists just advice working women especially to have eye-liner, a soft foundation, and light blush. it makes u look awake and ready for the world. a little use of make-up in my opinion is vital.
make-up and proper clothing just enhances one's beauty. at the end of the day its all abt presentation. u can be very good looking, but thik moto jodi shajtey nah paro u r not gona look ure best. make-up makes ppl look younger and tiptop. amra ey khaney fake niye onek bhashon dey, originality niye onek kotha boli. but name at least one person who posted a pic in this forum that they hated. in other words....
ami khub kom natural pics dekhechi. ppl either play with colour, make a pic brighter, or take the pics at an angle which best compliments their face. am i right folks? lolzzzzz hi5 ey jan, facebook ey jan, shobar pics dekhen. they r not ordinary pics. shobai onek kaida korey akhon chobi tulley just to be able to upload them in cyberworld. lolzzz
if u want to be natural... go all the way.. dunt wax ure arms, dunt shave ure legs. just leave it as it is... parba kortey? lolzzz removing hair jemon essentiel akhon make-up after a certain age is recommended. oyta chara manush der k dull laggey, for the majority of the ppl anyways.
everyone is self-conscious abt their looks, and even naturally beautiful people have their own complaints. so wat u really mean by beauty truly and only exists in ure own mind. u can be really beautiful but not be happy with ureself, and in search of happiness u can apply a bit of make-up to enhance ure look and feel better abt ureself.
there is nothing wrong with being natural, but many situations demand u to dress up a bit, look ure best. tokhon tau natural manush o eye liner lagai right?
especially if ure a woman now, working and dealing with all kinds of people everyday, u need to look professional, smart, and shine just like anyone else.
i suggest whether u r an usherette or a company manager u need to look ure best. if u dunt take care of urself, dunt pamper urself, do not spend an extra bit of time getting ready, then u r not taking urself seriously. and
if u cannot take urself seriously, then why should others take u seriously?
(this is the case for many hardwoking people, they rock, but they look tired or look older than their age, cuz they do not sleep properly and do not take care of their skin and do not touch up their face before going to work either.)
shoja kotha, ure life, u do watever u want with it. shajtey shauk hoyley shajba, doesnt matter wat u look like, if u can present urself in ure own smart and classic way then u r beautiful!
make-up in a way is empowering. not just vital in every-day life.
wen ppl say, hey u look good today. that haircut suits u, or wow that eye shadow looks sooo hawt. u feel gud abt urself. and that is the confidence that is sooooooooooooooooooooooooo lacking in the youth.
cuz they have the mentality: i m ugly no matter wat. and this causes them to isolate themselves. the very reason that holds them back from asking sumone out, or just engaging in a decent conversation with a stranger.
it is a hardcore fact, that one needs to feel good abt themselves, be happy, be confident to achieve everything they want to achieve.
in order to do that, taking care of self is the first step.
a bit of make-up doesnt hurt... nijer satisfaction dekhtey hoy.
nijer jono ektu shajtey hoy.
(doesnt sound gud coming from me... cuz i dunt use make-up but i do on occasions. )
the other idea.... yes too much make-up does make u look artificial... and it doesnt make u look any better. balance moto shob kortey hoy. lolz
tc