using the 'F' word in Golpo [not the C or M words]

[dark_saint]

Ekhan e ki ABCD shikhano hoy !

[SABJANTA]

Jodi kauke chhoto na korar jonyo lekhar proyojone f' word ba je kono word ase ja avoid kora jachhe na, tahole amar apotti nei. kintu kauke chhoto ba heyo korar jonyo hole apotti achhe.

[Chocolate]

Hmm..nice thread pori...I'm not even sure whethr my fingers ever slipped while writing...welp hopefully they ddn...I try to control what I'm writing in the forum. A lot of ppl take the difficulty of maintaining their's...I read thru all the posts very carefully...and Serial killer had definitely said my words!we shud try and avoid using these words in the forum...

[abinosshor]

ahem ahem, mone hoy F word use na korlei valo hoy(unless it is a movie quote or something, amar akta post a chilo oo mone hoy.But i agree with hellzpori in onething that is sometimes to define something extreme there is no word better than F.... But if it is permitted to use then i think it will spread like a virus and ppl would use it to offend someone or something.So lets put a leash on our temptation, and try not to use it.(Unless it is movie quote).

[iloveuall]

Originally Posted by oYn

ajke 'F' word, kalke 'C' word, porshu 'M' word, torshu ..........

torshu we will start using 'O' word instead of all these 'F', 'C' or 'M'

'O' word means oYn btw.

ami ja bujhi,f*ck in english is not 'C' word of bangla but u can say something like 'shala' of bangla....in two senses -

a) amra jemon karone/okarone shala boli,english e temon karone/okarone i f*ck bole.dui tai just kothar kotha,nothing serious.

b) when we call someone shala,we never mean the original meaning of the word.english e f*ck o erokom i.original meaning jai hok,oi ta bujhaite aajkal aar f*ck use hoi na.

eta ke beshi seriously newar kichu nai ebong 'amar shunlei ga ghin ghin kore' ei shob just over-react kora,IMO.

[tok_jhal_mishti]

Ok I take ur point that we r over reactin.....

If it dnt mean like that then we r supposed to use it anywhere i guess........cas when it means nothin like that then why over reactin!!!!

But I guess when we missed to bring our assignment at class amra sir er shamne boli na "F**k!!! i forgot to bring it".........

Yes u r very right that it doesnt mean that serious when its said..........but the language is english and calture is western perhaps where its really not that serious......

But we have our own calture and decency to fulfill...........as far i think infront of everyone we dont use the word shala as well...............ya in between frnds everything goes ok....................but in public i think we shud react on what we r talkin

[anikaputush]

^ I agree with Tok Bhaia

Don't walk away..Don't walk away..When the world is burning

[iloveuall]

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

Ok I take ur point that we r over reactin.....

If it dnt mean like that then we r supposed to use it anywhere i guess........cas when it means nothin like that then why over reactin!!!!

But I guess when we missed to bring our assignment at class amra sir er shamne boli na "F**k!!! i forgot to bring it".........

Yes u r very right that it doesnt mean that serious when its said..........but the language is english and calture is western perhaps where its really not that serious......

But we have our own calture and decency to fulfill...........as far i think infront of everyone we dont use the word shala as well...............ya in between frnds everything goes ok....................but in public i think we shud react on what we r talkin

trust me, i even saw my prof saying f*ck in class

jai hok, after reading my previous post in this thread, one of the golpians (who is my real life friend and lives abroad) called me and said..

golpo forum e dui ta culture er members ache - pure bangladeshi ebong Non-resident bangladeshi, pure bangladeshi ra thik bhabe f*ck er meaning ebong english e kothai/keno use hoi seta dhorte pare na. je karone tader kache eta ekta gaali.jehetu ami (that golpian) and apni (mane ami iloveuall) besh kichu din dhore baire achi,amra etar current meaning ta bujhte pari ebong bujhi je eta ashole gaali na, just ekta kothar kotha.

ami ei golpian er kotha ta mene nicchi.

[habijabi]

now if i post in the forum,

oi shala "i love you all" eigula ki likhse! - how does that sound? F word 'shala' er equivalent manei je forum e seta dhum dham post kora jabe, i cant agree with that

[oYn]

Jodi keu f*uck k gali hishabe nei amader ei view ta respect korte hobe. Ami amar boss ,je ekjon director, tar shamne f word use korsi, abar ekta manger er shamne kori nai karon ami jani shae ektu conservative. Person to person vary kore.

Publicly amader chesta korte hobe jotudur shombhob kao k offended na kora. Golpo te shob rokom type er e lok jon ase, eita amader bhuile gele cholbe na.