using the 'F' word in Golpo [not the C or M words]

[iloveuall]

Originally Posted by alana

this word publicly used by only the mannerless person.so we dont want it in forum.

this is the HEIGHT of over-reacting

[Severus]

the thread starter says abt the f-word. why r u bringing forward the C-words ?

[Force_Recon]

both are profanities aren't they?
eh freedom of speech anyone?

[anikaputush]

Eto kothar ki ase ami bujhtesina
maturity...rights...mannerless. No matter on what context we use it (offensive or non-offensive) it has notihing to do with maturity or the others.

Its not welcomed by majority in Golpo as we can see. And its not supported by the forum rules as well.
So refrain urself from using it in Golpo! its that simple!

[abinosshor]

See, what this F word has done, already akta bishal jhogra bedhe gese.

I also use the F word a lot and sometimes when i am really angry i also use C and MO word (sometimes in the public, i have a very bad temper and i couldn't control the things i say at that time).And i want to say this

"This has nothing to do with maturity",Maturity isn't the right word for it.Anyone shouldn't use this word whenever they like it unless for a real reason.Maturity consists of many many things,just because someone's view doesn't match with others ,you just can't say that person is immature.Because if this is the criteria then i am sure other could find hundreds of things about anyone to say that they are not mature enough. I would feel insulted more if someone question's my maturity(though at some point every human being is immature) rather than somebody say f*** u(it's completely dependent on personal view) to me.

And alana apu, F*** ai word ta ami sadharon gali hisabe use kori,abbash hoye gesi, kintu sobai bole ami naki besh vodro chele(collegues,relatives other than frnds).

[.HellzPori.]

"Ai m*** chol ajk dinner baire kori"

ASHORJO .. AMI KAOKE INSULT KORTE BOLI NAI. AMAR KOTHA APNE BUJHEN E NAI. EI BHABE BOLLE IT IS INSULTING .. ND I DO NOT PROMOTE USING THIS WORD TO INSULT ANY BEING.

also, i am not using this word in every sentence i say. yea, different words can be used to express different feelings but if i choose to use this word, i don't think it makes me low-graded .. it is just my personal preference of expressing myself nd u guys said, that i can express myself. how i choose to do it is my problem. i have the freedom of speech nd i wanna utilize it. nd again, I DID NOT INSULT ANYONE.

BUT eije alana called all those people who use this word, mannerless , eita kemon type er kotha ? eita ki insult na? nd Tepantor, u can express ur opinion, that is fine by me, but when u start the name-calling stuff as in calling someone low-graded, it is completely unacceptable by me. also, i did not say that use kora manei growing up hoye gelo. the whole matter is about TOLERANCE nd ACCEPTANCE. tumi use koro na bhalo kotha, but why would u refrain someone else from using it? just cuz u don't like it, doesn't mean u have the right to stop the other person from saying it.

if u guys have to express urself, plz do it in a constructive way without name calling. also, right now, i think this word should not be used in the forum since everyone seems to be so sensitive about it. i never in my wildest imagination realized it would get this far.

also, another thing, i just realized the logic behind the admin banning this word, i guess . two reasons i can see:
1. people can't be tolerant.
2. people would use it in the wrong context.


ND ONE MORE THING I WANNA MAKE CLEAR:
THIS THREAD IS NOT ABOUT THE C-WORD OR THE M-WORD .. IT'S ABOUT THE F-WORD BEING USED IN A NON-SEXUAL WAY. PLEASE KEEP THAT IN MIND BEFORE POSTING AGAIN. THANK YOU.

[tok_jhal_mishti]

I dont find any part that cud insult anyone..............

What part ur not gettin here!!! Its not about one word.......u allow one another is gonna come.............that is what is happanin here don u get it!!!

We started with one word now look where its goin!

All these words are attached...........whe u start one u gotta pull others in...

And about bening.........there is another word I know ppl use around there bi**h..............its a very bad mean...........but they mean it as slave aswell.....when they talk in frank mood.........

Look all im sayin we all use the word................but still atleast in our country in papers >40% educated...............are they well enough educated!!!!
Actually 8 to 10% probaly knows.................so no one will get it..........era agulor vul use kore shob kichu noshto kore dibe...............so we need to avoid it...........

Really good posting from angelmorn

And u have opened a real good thread to discuss cas amader desher young polapain double standar hoye gase already................tumi shob jaegae use koro na but ami dekhtesi chele meyera ki unusually shobar shamne kotha gulo bole in public.................and most of the case they mean it bad way...............just cas they know it can be used other way now they r usin it in real meaning

Its just discussion helz....
I don know but im not here to insult any one

[Severus]

here is a List of films that most frequently use the word "f u c k"

List of films ordered by uses of the word **** - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[.HellzPori.]

Severus -- exactly my point. if the 'F' word can be tolerated in movies, then why not in the real world? the movies listed .. most of them r pretty well-known such as Scarface, Hostel, American Gangster, The Departed etc. it's so easy to say u don't like a person using the 'F' word, but yet, no one ever says they don't like a movie, for using foul language. Al Pacino na jane koto movie tey ei word ta use korse, yet people love him almost like god. he is a legend nd his dialogue such as the one --> "stupid f***" is known by most as one of his tag lines. nd the funny thing is .. in movies, the meaning of the word in 99% of the times, is offensive, whereas in this thread i was trying to bring out the better meaning of the word. very strange .

tok_jhal_mishti -- just cuz those people who use it in the wrong way, doesn't mean it can restrict me from using it in the right way.
if the term, 'b*tch' is considered derogatory, then so should be the word dog. but we still use it normally, don't we ?
also, i said, allowing the word in a good way nd not the bad way. again, what u r saying is that it will be used in an offensive way, well, i am saying that it shouldn't be even if it is allowed. nd none of these words r attached because they all have different meanings.

[oYn]

Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

Severus -- exactly my point. if the 'F' word can be tolerated in movies, then why not in the real world?

Sorry I don't see a connection using the 'F' word in movie and in our case .