using the 'F' word in Golpo [not the C or M words]

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Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

not using it in the context of offending anyone .. but using it in a regular sentence ..

what is ur opinion?

That was it all about!

Can WE Just post our opinion here & stay on topic ?!

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by oYn

Sorry I don't see a connection using the 'F' word in movie and in our case .

i touched on this idea before.
people watch movies for entertainment, right? so, movie tey 'F' word use korle oder ga e lage na. whereas ami ekta normal manush hoye jodi 'F' word ta offensive way teo na use kori, manush amake kharap bhabe dekhe. which makes no sense. ami bolle keno manush ga e makhbe nd ulta jodi movie tey bole, tokhon they would take it as fun nd they have no problem hearing it. nd the counter attack to that statement might be .. "because movies aren't real."
but then to me, it goes back to the whole point of entertainment again. i don't think it is logical for a person to get entertained by something that they think is offensive nd call other people who use that word, 'shameless'. it is like they r contradicting themselves in a way. think about it.
the ideal mind set should be: "ami jodi kisu like na kori, then ami akdom e tolerate korbo na. but ami jodi oita ekta aspect theke tolerate korte pari, then ami onno shob aspect thekeo tolerate korbo"

[oYn]

Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

so, movie tey 'F' word use korle oder ga e lage na.

how do you know ?

Originally Posted by .HellzPori.

don't think it is logical for a person to get entertained by something that they think is offensive nd call other people who use that word, 'shameless'. it is like they r contradicting themselves in a way. think about it.
the ideal mind set should be: "ami jodi kisu like na kori, then ami akdom e tolerate korbo na. but ami jodi oita ekta aspect theke tolerate korte pari, then ami onno shob aspect thekeo tolerate korbo"

Say one of your favourite movie contains a rape scene, I don't think you are entertained by it. But still it's your favourite movie.

Now many people don't like the "F" word in a movie, it does not matter to them how it is used, but they do like the whole movie.

I have no problem with the 'F' word, but as I said before we can't use it publicly.

[tok_jhal_mishti]

There is no use of discussion when u know its right Helzpori...........

If u want discussion u shud have accepted facts..............tomar kono kotha te ami kono fact pai na jeta amake bs ole j yes we need to use this word........in fact i ve given several reasons to not use it.................

If ur upto making ur own descition then i don get any reason of discussion........

And yes being very frank this word in public makes me sick............
there are some thing that are suppose to happen in private..............other wise there is no point of difference betn human & animal...........

And if u have decieded this to be the right.............then be it............no one is stoppin I hope............

But in our life we really need some discency that we think is proper..........

And as we have not makin u stop don try tellin us to use the word...........

U r not directly sayin so but tryin convincin so..........

Good going with ur use of word

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by oYn

how do you know ?

maybe i don't .. but u don't either.

Originally Posted by oYn

Say one of your favourite movie contains a rape scene, I don't think you are entertained by it. But still it's your favourite movie.

Now many people don't like the "F" word in a movie, it does not matter to them how it is used, but they do like the whole movie.

I have no problem with the 'F' word, but as I said before we can't use it publicly.

well, i don't think in any movie, a rape scene is portrayed as something bad. the culprit(s) r always punished or the movie is always about getting the culprit(s) punished . whereas the 'F' word is just a figure of speech. so, i don't see the point of comparing the two. however, i do kinda agree with ur point though :umm:. the story is what matters the most .

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

There is no use of discussion when u know its right Helzpori...........

If u want discussion u shud have accepted facts..............tomar kono kotha te ami kono fact pai na jeta amake bs ole j yes we need to use this word........in fact i ve given several reasons to not use it.................

excuse me, sir. u have not given me any facts either. u presented ur OPINION not FACTS. if u presented facts, then i would not be sitting here debating with u to prove my point.

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

If ur upto making ur own descition then i don get any reason of discussion........

u r making ur own decision too .. of not using the word.

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

And yes being very frank this word in public makes me sick............
there are some thing that are suppose to happen in private..............other wise there is no point of difference betn human & animal...........

that's ur opinion, not mine. again, 'F' word use korlei keo animal hoye jae na for the fact that not everyone uses it in the offensive way in public .

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

And if u have decieded this to be the right.............then be it............no one is stoppin I hope............

good for u that u understand that.

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

But in our life we really need some discency that we think is proper..........

that is also ur opinion. not mine.

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

And as we have not makin u stop don try tellin us to use the word...........

U r not directly sayin so but tryin convincin so..........

i have NOT expressed that i want u to use this word. i made this clear in my other post on the previous page. i just want u to tolerate it nd not use it if u don't wish to. not everyone has the same way of expressing themselves nd u should be able to respect that. also, if expression of opinion sounds like convincing to u .. then i am really speechless. in fact, the whole idea of this thread was to make sure whether people r okay with someone else using this word. meaning, jodi jekono member ei word ta Golpo tey non-offensive bhabe use kore, is it okay? this thread was not about .. convincing everyone to use the word. also, ami first post e mention korsilam that habijabi inspired me to open this thread. well, i used the 'F' word like this in one of my posts -- "Amy Lee has an f'in sexci voice." nd habijabi said amar use kora uchit na. then what i said was .. ami ei word ta offensive context e use korinai, so why should i not use it? hence, i opened this thread to get ur opinion about .. what if someone uses it in a non-offending way. would u accept it? it is as simple as that. ami boli nai shobai ke use korte hobe. so, before u blame someone, plz know the entire story nd then jump to a conclusion.

Originally Posted by tok_jhal_mishti

Good going with ur use of word

thank u.


this thread should be discussed no further. thank u all for "co-operating".

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thread closed upon thread openers request