Women : Home or Work ?

[darkcrunk]

Hmm.. the issue of whether women should go out to work or stay at home has been debated for a long, long time.

If women go out to work, that means a second income for the family : ) Many things which are unaffordable to a single-income family become more easily available to a family with a double income. The things can be a bigger car, a bigger house, better food and clothes or even an expensive overseas education. With the high cost of living nowadays, it is quite impossible to make ends meet on a single income. In fact, in some advanced countries, not only do both husband and wife work but they have to moonlight just to maintain a respectable standard of living.

Apart from this, women nowadays are much better educated and it seems to be a waste not to utilize their talents. They may hold degrees in business management, accountancy, and law or computer science. It is a great waste of resources if such specialized knowledge is not put to use. On the other hand, in families where both husband and wife work, the children suffer the consequences. Without proper care and attention, the children become problems. They neglect their studies, take drugs or become involved in other forms of juvenile delinquency.

If a woman stays at home, the most obvious advantage is that she can take care of the household better ( that still depends, u will see :P ) . She can also spend more time with the children and have a stabilizing effect on them. As a result, they are less likely to become problems.

Considering the pros and cons, I cannot see a woman, especially a highly educated one, being tied to the home. I cannot imagine a situation where a highly talented woman is not given the chance to express her creativity. She would feel stifled and unfulfilled if her role in life is just to bear children, to look after them and to cook and wash for them. However if the husband’s income is substantial, she may not need to work.

She can then find fulfillment for her creative instincts by being involved in other activities, such as painting & writing, which are not work and which do not take up too much of her time. Alternatively, if a woman really must work, she could look for a part time job or a job with flexible working hours or, best of all, one in which she could do the work at home such as giving tuition or writing for magazines or journals and newspaper, or being an insurance agent.

What do you have in mind?

[rew_myth]

Women out....and in home as well.
Situation would decide, Not me.
thanks nice thread.

[SilensOfTheLambs]

both ..
home n out...situation or time

[friend_]

If they can maintain their home and work together ....they should work !

[Numb_with_Rage]

Originally Posted by darkcrunk

Hmm.. the issue of whether women should go out to work or stay at home has been debated for a long, long time.

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hahahahahaaaa. lolzzzz sorry.. just the tone found it comical.

If a woman stays at home, the most obvious advantage is that she can take care of the household better ( that still depends, u will see :P ) . She can also spend more time with the children and have a stabilizing effect on them. As a result, they are less likely to become problems.

if a woman is expected to have a stabilizing effect on children, a man should be expected the same. If couples work, and pitch in at home equally, things will be very organized. Ive seen many families like that.. and I dont see anything wrong with it.

wats wrong with it... is old customs expecting the same, and the women getting married,giving birth fall behind in their career goals wen they are preferred to look out for things. that is wats wrong with it...

She would feel stifled and unfulfilled if her role in life is just to bear children, to look after them and to cook and wash for them. However if the husband’s income is substantial, she may not need to work.

lolzzzzz. gift kintey jabo, ba shauk mitabo.. tokhon jodi amar jamai bolley, na takka laghbey na... aito khoroj koro na. tokhon tau matha out hoye jabey. lolz
in the future, i would like to have my own job, my own money for my own needs. shara jonom cheye beraitey parbo na. my future hubby and i will both work. cuz its better. and its a study, that most fights occur due to money probs. if i can work... i'll work till i die. make use of my time and not just be dismissed as a homemaker... lolz aint my style.. and i feel others are becoming more independent as well.

Alternatively, if a woman really must work, she could look for a part time job or a job with flexible working hours or, best of all, one in which she could do the work at home such as giving tuition or writing for magazines or journals and newspaper, or being an insurance agent.

we suggest that for women, but not men. its funny, how i never heard anyone say, " if a man must work..."

lolzzzzzz

we all gotta work... if women can, they should work, and couples should manage tasks equally at home.

balance... both pitch in, both work inside and outside of home.
jhogra lagley... kew karey boltey parbey na j ami beshi khatti. lolzzzz

imagine if both are breadwinners in the family... better quality of life, and the extra money can be used to help someone. pay for a student's tuitions, be sent to a good charity, most of all be accessible to help neighbours, friends, or foes.

prices going high.... no one can afford to stay home anymore, and even if u can, its better to be out, learning, earning money for future emergencies.

w/e...

women should work...

tc.

[oYn]

Its a personal choice, y shud I interfere

[Numb_with_Rage]

Originally Posted by oYn

It a personal choice, y shud I interfere

lolzzzzz good answer
tc

[Canny]

I think they don't waste their talent, should work if possible.