How do you check what you are being warned for?

[username_stealer!]

I recently got a warning (go figure) for one of my posts and the warning stated that I used "Inappropriate Language".
My quesionts is, how do you check which part of the post is inapprorpirate? Or is it like for the whole post? If it is for the whole post, I believe it should specify which part of the post is inappropriate, so we can fix them after. Or atlest tell us what it is when we pm you and ask nicely what it was.
Cheers!
P.S.- Do we get to contest our moderated messages?

[Severus]

that you have posted without reference with something like "i heard a guy said book whose name i dont remember and somewhere in it says blah blah" and your post led to inpropar criticism