EErrrr...I don't know what to say. I'd probably say stay away from it because it seems like you're probably living in a delusion...I am sorry, ami onek rational ebong unromantic kotha likhe fellam but I don't think you can give her the respect she deserves by marrying her against your family and stuff. And she honestly doesn't deserve the hell she's gonna be put through by ur side of the family and our glorious society by marrying you. So unless you can prevent that, stay away from it
Egula onek boro boro bepar...and marriage is a GIGANTIC step..so think hard. Tobe ekta jinish bhalo laglo..that you dont seem to be binded by the societal differences. But whatever you do, please think it through.