Dui jon-er preme porechhi,ki upay?

harakiri · #1 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 02:10 PM

Hi all.....i am girl of 27 and married for 10 years...but recently this guy came into my life,i mean returned into my life and things arent going as smoothly as it used to be....he is my first love,but our relationship ended due to our parents pressure..after we broke up,the usual sad period and consequences of break-up took place...and after the recovery,i found my husband and tried to forget the first one....but things started going differently when i headr that my "first" returnd bangladesh and i felt a very strong desire to meet with him and so we did....i love my husband and he is so cute that u cant help loving him and he loves me too....my "first" one loves me so much that he didnt get married yet and still single...my long lost love for him has already grown up and its growing everyday immensely and i do have a feeling of guilt....both the men love me too much and i dont want to hurt anyone....what can i do????

and what if....
i say that i am the one who the narrator was mentioning so far as my "first"??
my actual question is--can a man or a woman fall in love with two person at a time??

Ashfaq · #2 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 02:17 PM

Welcome To Golpo.Net

SolaRmaN · #3 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 02:47 PM

apnar thread ta pore onek kosto pailam

amar bow erokom babe arekjon buke nia shuker shongshar badar shopno dekle amar bow ke ami ekta kotai bolbo

ekta shundori maye deke amake bia dia tumi jawga

there welcome btw

depression_within · #4 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 03:01 PM

Apnar problem ta apni chara ar keo temon ekta solve korte parbena ashole!!

UnD!$PuTeD · #5 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 03:19 PM

stick around n prolly u'll get ur ans sumwer around ere ...

wc

Ashfaq · #6 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 03:29 PM

Btw did you accidently put male as your gender?

habijabi · #7 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 03:38 PM

Hum dil de chuke sonom er kotha mone pore jaitese

anyways, one person can fall in love with two. its possible as we are human beings. To come out of this joint, you have to be strict to yourself and prepare yourself for some sacrifices. think carefully with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. your relationship with whom would stay stable for the rest of the period, not just now. people change over time. you have to keep that in your mind.

the person you married - you lived with him closely. if you find him good and he loves you, that sounds more reliable to me. The person you havnt lived with yet - perhaps you havnt seen many sides of him yet which may be good or bad. keep these things in your mind. Since you are 27, you are matured than most of us in terms of life experiences. So I believe, you can judge well.

And, welcome to golpo

shmegel · #8 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 03:52 PM

Hello!! Welcome to golpo...apu, I understand the dilemma but I think Habijabi bhaia is right

khekshial · #9 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 04:04 PM

apni je nick nisen tate ami onek bhoy paisi, deikhen abar oita koira boishen na, eitar solve apne chara keu korte parbe na, welcome to golpo

dark_saint · #10 (**permalink**) 12-12-2007, 04:46 PM

DO wht ur mind says ...........but things come to at end ....u hv to maintain the reality of ur life ................true love never ends....nd never dies .........but ....think wht u hv u in the present life ....Je bortomaaan shetai bhalo ....por e Onno dik e jete giye koshto paben oneeek .....But if u could want .....b4 ur marriage ...U could get him ...jai hok , Welcome to the golpo community ......Have fun ............