My Part of Hell -- The Pori

[.HellzPori.]

is it really that wrong to speak up to someone's face? i sometimes wonder. why do people hide out so much? is it just the fear of not being liked? or is it just because people don't want to hurt others' feelings?

they always say that "honest is the best policy." but now i really doubt if that's true. if it really was the best policy then why r most people not honest about things around them? why do they always butter up to people they don't like nd not ever express their true feelings? why do they like to suffer so much by forcefully tolerating a person they direly want to get rid of?

it's pretty strange ... the world nd it's people i mean. no one knows anything for certain. i don't know anything for certain either. is there really such a thing called truth? i'm rather confused.

.The.Seeker.of.Truth.

[Gemini]

Majhe majhe honestly is not the best policy, man. Sometimes jene shuneo chup thakte hoy...just in order to keep the peace you know? It can be particuarly hard for people who can't butter up someone...but....korte hoy. Then again sometimes its better to just say what's on your mind without being too harsh. Or if you cant say it, do something without being so obvious but still making your point.

U know, I used to do that. I mean tolerating people who were not good for me in any way. There are people like that, who are like parasites. They live on you, they suck the life out of you and yet, you have to smile and make small talk. Even hang out with them occasionally. Then I got sick n tired of it. By tolerating them one is not being good to their own self. And they don't deserve it.

Then I realized that I don't have to be good to everyone. I don't owe anyone anything. If they're making me unhappy, if I got nothing in common with them, then I don't have to live with it So I started distancing myself. I got sick and tired of superficial relationships of any sort. Am guessing so have you

Cut them loose from your life, if that's the case. Or if you feel that someone is buttering you up and know it, don't give them the chance. Distant yourself from them.

[AngeL_EyeZ]

Apiiiii...i'm with u...so chill!!...shotti kotha jara bole tader keu dekhte pare na eta thik but u n me don't really caer abt that cause amader jara dekhte pare tara always parbe...eishob niye don't think too much...okey Germo?? me loves u alot...

[guitarNstrings]

3 jon great writer er lekha por por ami voi paiya kisu likhlam na

[.HellzPori.]

Gemini --

AngeL_EyeZ --

guitarNstrings --


today's blog ... nothing really special. i am pretty sleepy at the moment. i could lay down on my bed nd easily go to sleep in 5 minutes maximum. but, i'm still up waiting for .madman. to come online. uni akhono ghumachhe nak deke deke. well, yea it's alright cuz o thake to always ore raat er time. o ashole onek bhalo ase nd i love him a lot. most people can probably see that around the forum even. my siggy is dedicated to him too . hehe.

anywayyyyy, ekta gaan shuntesi akhon. it's called "Fields of Innocence" nd it's by Evanescence, probably my most favourite band. ei gaan ta ami keno jani agey shuni nai. ajke hothat YouTube e gaan tar video ta pelam. nd well, to be honest, it's worth a listen. it's a really peaceful song. i'm loving the lyrics. i can relate to it so much right now (if u've read my previous entries, u'll notice )

"Fields Of Innocence"

i still remember the world ..
from the eyes of a child ..
slowly those feelings
were clouded by what I know now ...

where has my heart gone?
an uneven trade for the real world ..
oh i ...
i want to go back to ..
believing in everything nd knowing nothing at all ..

i still remember the sun ..
always warm on my back ..
somehow it seems colder now ...

where has my heart gone?
trapped in the eyes of a stranger ..
oh why ...
i want to go back to ..
believing in everything ...

... asholei i want to go to back to believing in everything .. nd knowing nothing at all.

.DreameR.

[.HellzPori.]

this blog is for those people, who think they're the greatest being on this universe. unfortunately, the harsh truth is "ur not." in fact, no one is, except for the being that created us.

some people tend to think that they're too good for others and i strongly believe that they are in dire need of a psychiatrist. well wait! now i have a feeling that probably psychiatrists would be too bewildered to treat them properly.

u know, i just don't understand why people judge others. u can say what u think about them, but when u say that u KNOW what they're thinking, that is just so wrong. especially when u think ur so great, u shouldn't say what u think of other people cuz obviously u would think low of them.

i was in a similar situation just a while ago and i don't really understand how this person came up with all these things about them being so goody goody.

i never believe anything until i see it for myself cuz i can't trust other people's perspectives. everybody in this world has a unique way of processing their thoughts. therefore, i feel that there is not really a right or wrong. so, i believe what i think is right cuz that is my point of view. it is human nature and everyone thinks that way. i'm not saying that u shouldn't think ur the best. u have all the right to. but just don't put other people down by expressing it. that's just wrong! this is where conflicts nd arguments come in.

anyway, to be honest, i'm usually nice to people. not one person can tell me that i was rude with them when they were nice to me cuz i strictly believe that people deserve to be treated the way they treat other people. if someone's nice, i'll be nice to them even though i'm not their greatest fan.

but some people, even after being nice to them, just don't get the concept in their head. they think that doing whatever they feel is okay and is acceptable whereas not a lot of people would be too keen to accept that kind of behaviour.
this time, i was tolerant - tolerant enough to hear this person speak to me for more than an hour. i always tell myself that there is no way of knowing a person inside and out. so therefore, i did my best to not judge this person based on what i saw or heard from him.

i wasn't rude. i gave in and was friendly even when he said things like "my mentality is far away and fast from you. u wouldn't understand what i say to u unless i make it explanatory to u." i simply replied "no comments " even though i was dying of laughter inside, cuz it sounded more or less cheesy. but anyway, if u think about it more deeply, it was a way of him saying that "ur dumb" indirectly.

basically, he had no right to talk to me like that. i mean, if u think ur so great, then go be Albert Einstein!
he knew he was going to be so arrogant, then why did he even bother talking to me? i tried my best to be nice, but i guess my point never crossed his head.

anyway, i'm really sleepy right now. it's 4:42 AM here.

i'm going to bed now.


good night world. i shall see u in a few hours.

.Lost.all.hope.on.Mankind.

[.madman.from.hell.]

awwwwwww PORI tumi ekta tubelight ar satha kotha bolso..LOL

[Severus]

u should take my old blog title ... u can do it more effectively

[habijabi]

apu, when you say "no comments" and you believe its an indirect way of telling him "ur dumb" - isnt that another way of judging, only "not expressing" the judgment? . arnt you convinced inside that guy was dumb - the base of which was your own perspectives and point of views which you can not help thinking to be perfect?

this time, you may be so (reading your blog gives me that impression about the guy) but next time in another time you may not be . but then too, you will rely on your perspectives and think of it as the truth (which may not be).

can we all really be ever free of "judging people" ? even if we try to? we have to rely on ourselves upto some level i guess .

[.HellzPori.]

Originally Posted by habijabi

apu, when you say "no comments" and you believe its an indirect way of telling him "ur dumb" - isnt that another way of judging, only "not expressing" the judgment? . arnt you convinced inside that guy was dumb - the base of which was your own perspectives and point of views which you can not help thinking to be perfect?

this time, you may be so (reading your blog gives me that impression about the guy) but next time in another time you may not be . but then too, you will rely on your perspectives and think of it as the truth (which may not be).

can we all really be ever free of "judging people" ? even if we try to? we have to rely on ourselves upto some level i guess .

wait wait wait! .. ur getting me wrong here. amar mone hoise o amake indirectly dumb bolse. ami oke dumb boli nai . nd by the way, he admitted that he didn't add me cuz he wanted to. someone else got him into adding me. so he was talking to me against his will, right? ore sathe amar agei problem hoise, so i felt he was being arrogant. he knew he was going to act like this with me. then why did he even bother adding me?


read this again:

but anyway, if u think about it more deeply, it was a way of him saying that "ur dumb" indirectly.

i said:

this blog is for those people, who think they're the greatest being on this universe. unfortunately, the harsh truth is "ur not." in fact, no one is, except for the being that created us.

also, i didn't judge him as a person. i judged what he said, NOT him.